If you aren't attracted to her, don't date her. However, don't do what many people here have told you to do, and tell her to shave. If she has facial hair now, she's probably had it most of her life. Do you really want to melt into the mass of men who've told her to go and live up to their idea of beauty? I understand perfectly that if you find her unattractive, you won't want to date her. But don't expect her to change herself to have the lucky, lucky chance of dating a god like you. (That was sarcasm for anyone who didn't get that). - I get dark hairs on my top lip (similar to what a boy gets at the start of puberty) due to South Indian ancestry and I choose to have it threaded, but because I prefer it and not because other people want me to.

The more you talk to someone and begin to like him/her, the less those things matter!

That's not a problem. If you like her, then go ahead and date her,Appearance isn't everything.

So?

That would be a red flag for sure. Not that it happens but that she doesn't do anything about it.