By x - 12/11/2012 02:16 - United States - Lake Placid

Today, I finally met the girl I've been talking to on phone for a while and found her charming in person as well. There's just one problem: she has more facial hair than I do. FML
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Same thing different taste

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That's not too big a problem. Appearence isn't everything.

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Blyville 2

just get to know her and see where it may go. Im sure it probably bothers her more than it bothers you. She is the one living with it

Shadowvoid 33

Alright guys, stop with the appearance isn't everything. I know most of the men on here would vastly prefer a woman that doesn't have a full beard and mutton chops. Secondly, i'm also pretty sure most of you would prefer a nice thin, fit person. I would like for you to tell me I'm wrong and what's your significant others "baggage."

You're right. You'd have to be full of shit to say that a good appearance isn't a plus.

Appearance is a big factor because you can get a lot of info from a person appearances that can relay a lot of info about them. On the other hand a person's personality has many aspects that are not visible or shown for a long time, along with secrets that are incredibly shocking (you see these on this site). An example is a relative that is nice when they're near groups of people but goes batshit crazy when you are alone with them or a person with a devastating secret that they keep to themselves when it impacts their whole relationship in some way. What I'm trying to say is not that personality is useless but that appearance as a judging factor is one that is prevalent whether we like to or not as it happens subconsciously. Also we don't know what the girl had so for all we know she can have an affliction or the that she doesn't do anything to it. PS. The hair growing back Thicker When You Shave it is a myth and has been proven for a long time. Hair growth changes dependent on hormones and the state your health is at the time so that has an effect sometimes as your body is never at a 100% consistent state.

kittytub 12

Noor, I'd answer, but I'm quite in a hurry. I really mustache :P

Just give her certificate for a wax at a spa for her birthday.. Problem solved

It can be due to PCOS, a hormone imbalance or even a tumor. Don't judge based on her appearance. Maybe it's uncontrollable, not in her hands.

Some of you are lying through your keyboard. If there were two girls in front of you, one with stubble & one with a smooth face but they both have equally great personalities, which one would you choose? Yeah, thought so. No one purposely dates someone they find unattractive, they find things they can overlook. If OP doesn't like her facial hair, he can ask her POLITELY to shave it off or he can move on if she refuses.

ellytoad 13

Also, it's not like this girl has the only great personality in the world. And most personalities are mediocre, which doesn't make up for a mediocre or bad appearance. So much for the 'personalities rule all' crap.

You can buy hair bleach, tweezers, and wax. You can't buy a personality. Don't judge her based on this one minor appearance issue if she's perfect otherwise!