By Anonymous - 31/12/2010 07:43 - United States

Today, I found a note in my boyfriend's car from another girl telling him she hoped he liked the flowers. These were the same flowers he gave me while I was in the hospital, just after having his kid. FML
I agree, your life sucks 41 439
You deserved it 4 479

Same thing different taste

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'His' kid? Not 'our' kid? Hmm, someone isn't happy, although receiving flowers doesn't mean that he automatically is cheating, you know.

I can just see the comments now: "YDI! *****. That's what you get for having a baby out of wedlock." LMAO. Yes, because it's a proven scientific fact that marriage stops cheating.

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That note sounds like its one of his friends that he asked to get flowers from the store and basiclly saying "I got good flowers for her huh :P" talk to him dont just assume lols

Fyl for making assumptions. it could have been a friend who got flowers to give to you. Maybe he didn't have time to get them himself, and she was hoping she got a good boquet that he liked well enough to give you. You assume wrongly of him when you might not know the full story. I feel sorry for the boyfriend and the kid, unless you grow up and start trusting him. Unless you let him knock you up on accident... I still feel sorry for the child. fyl.

it could have been a female coworker or something who wanted to give them flowers to congratulate them. people always assume the worst.

sallen0046 4

Did it ever occur to you that the flowers could have been meant as a congratulatory gift for the two of you? Instead of making wild assumptions, why don't you try asking him about it? If you're really this worried and jealous you shouldn't be having children with this man in the first place. Either he's not trustworthy, or you're not mature enough for this kind of relationship.

How do you know they were the same flowers?

don't be stupid. girls don't usually buy flowers for guys they're fooling around with. the note is from the florist who arranged the bouquet.

justbigbs 6

I partially agree with #70, normally a girl would not give a guy flowers, that just unheard of. Secondly, they guy is your "boyfriend" he's not your husband, so he don't have to stay with you. Like another reader said, YDI because you let him inside you.

maybe he was busy being at the hospital with you or preparing for the baby otherwise and asked someone to get flowers so he could give them to you. MAYBE just MAYBE you should talk it out with him instead of assuming the worst. more relationships might be successful these days if people actually talked to you