By helenablitz - 28/08/2009 06:42 - United States

Today, I found out my boyfriend of two years has children. Not one, not two, but three. Not with one, two, but three women. FML
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cookiexcookie 0

break up with him...I don't think u want to be the 4th women with the 4th child :/

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jonny2x4 0

Clearly he's very popular with the ladies. YDI for falling in love with a playa'.

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letitbe56 0

I think the real issue here is how he treats these women and his children. Find out more about how these relationships ended and what kind of terms they're on now. Yeah, this doesn't look good, but it might not be as bad as you think. The law of very large numbers says that three condom failures in three consecutive relationships leading to a child is bound to happen to somebody. If he's on time with child support and makes an effort to be a good dad...you may have a keeper. However, you could also have an asshole who doesn't care about protection and who runs away from responsibility. In which case, get out now.

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291togo 0

RUN! He won't be able to afford shit with all those child support payments.

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letitbe56 0

For all you know, the OP makes a lot of money, so for her it isn't an object. The burden of financial responsibility should be shared, not placed solely on the man.

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tsundere 1

Wrong. They are not married, therefore they are not legally her kids. Even if they were, they're still not her problem since they're not in her or his custody. The financial burden is all on him as he's the one who chose to **** these women. Granted, what needs to be known is how close in age the kids are, and if any are younger than 2 years (which would signify that he had been cheating). It's not that unusual that someone would have 3 kids to 3 different women if he's an older male, but still. That's pretty bad. That's something you should tell your partner long beforehand..

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letitbe56 0

I guess I was unclear about what I meant. The kids are all his problem (and their mothers'). However, if the OP and the BF are living together or if they end up getting married, then they should share all related financial responsibility.

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chanman 0

tsundre seems to forget the human gestation period...

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Subjectzero 0

if I didn't think that would be a hell of a bad situation for him with child support, i'd call him a very lucky man. but hey, it goes to show he's spreading his genes around.

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ivdrscg 2

I found out the night before I married my husband that he had 2 kids...

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plutosaplanet 0

did you go through with it?

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icedrake523 2

Sounds like something for Maury.

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squijett 0

Is his name Luis?? If it is, the magic number is actually 4.....

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squijett 0

I left the father of my child a week before the wedding, because I found the paternity test results, while packing my things to leave him after recieving a phone call from his ex - who had 2 kids by him. I knew about one kid, but not about these two. He didn't pay child support for any of them, and never saw 2. There really wasn't any way for me to know until I found that paperwork. Thank god I did, but unfortunately it came too late.

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