By smashleighfig - 08/03/2010 05:14 - France

Today, I found out my husband of 10 years has a online blog. Excited to read about myself, I began skimming, only to find out that every entry is him explaining how he let his "soulmate" walk away 9 years ago because of his "previous commitment" and how he regrets it every day. FML
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You deserved it 3 630

Same thing different taste

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Tell him you know exactly how he feels. If you really want to hurt him, tell him your "lost soulmate" was well hung.

I could never stay with a man who doesn't think of me as his soulmate. to be referred to as a 'previous commitment' and not 'dear wife'. to be regretted as a choice. I'd rather be alone.

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WTF 17 that guy can tell the future but he is a little off because I bet she left him

Flutist 3

LUCY THE LIGHTS ARE ON BUT NOBODY IS HOME!

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No worries, people tend to romanticize the past and just wonder what could have been, especially when they are unhappy at the moment.

This X 10000. There's no such thing as soulmates, only a 'grass is greener' mentality. Trust me, if he had had married the 'soulmate' instead and lived with all of her irritating habits and assorted human imperfections day in and day out, he'd be blogging obsessively over YOU.

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He clearly isn't happy though, that's the problem.

tastycakes 0

#40 I think you're missing the point- OP never had the opportunity to 'let him be happy' as she only found out now, via his blog, that her husband regrets getting married to her and not being with his 'soulmate'. Personally I think husband is a huge idiot for not being honest 9 years ago. How would OP know otherwise?

Reynard12 0

Well, snooping does tend to lead to learning things you were happier not knowing about yourself.

How can this be snooping? It's a blog, not a diary!

LemonLala 0

Surely you must've noticed something in the ten years you were married? Or 9 years ago when it happened?