By smashleighfig - 08/03/2010 05:14 - France

Today, I found out my husband of 10 years has a online blog. Excited to read about myself, I began skimming, only to find out that every entry is him explaining how he let his "soulmate" walk away 9 years ago because of his "previous commitment" and how he regrets it every day. FML
I agree, your life sucks 40 111
You deserved it 3 630

Same thing different taste

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Tell him you know exactly how he feels. If you really want to hurt him, tell him your "lost soulmate" was well hung.

I could never stay with a man who doesn't think of me as his soulmate. to be referred to as a 'previous commitment' and not 'dear wife'. to be regretted as a choice. I'd rather be alone.

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cut him loose and go about your business

I don't understand. You've been married to him for 10 years (and dating a bit longer, I presume) and he lost his soulmate 9 years ago? That just doesn't add up unless he also cheated on you, in which case, he has not been faithful at all and therefore sucks ass.

owlsong... that's why the OP's husband couldn't be with his 'soulmate'... because he had a 'previous commitment.' So yes, he cheated emotionally, I'm assuming, after 1 year of marriage.

Who needs that? And you had no idea that he was so unhappy? Well . . . now you know.

YDI u stupid woman didn't know ur husband cheated on u after a yr u got married

thoughtcrimeno1 0

set him on fire if you don't. ever heard of incinerate by Ryan industries?

bfffness 0

an you haven't dumped his ass yet?

@61 I've never appreciated snickerdoodles comments, and think she's way too critical on everyone for grammar and otherwise... But don't call her ugly! That's so mean. She's probably an extremely unhappy person as it is, considering the kind of comments she posts.

VeryNice329 0

he didn't necessarily cheat on her...physically. people are in relationships and end up meeting other great people: people they've always dreamed of being with. but they feel bad breaking it off w/ their current SO because there are feelings for them too. he could have been mature and broke things off w/ his now wife, but for all we know, he could be w/ his "soulmate" blogging about how he regrets letting her get away.

Flutist 3

@61. Besides your rudeness towards someone who most likely suffers a bad image anyways...or not. But that is besides the point. She should be happy for his SACRIFICE? Really. What an ass. She should have been told a year into the marriage that it wouldn't work instead of suffering a decade of lies. She can't help loving him. Its not her fault. One line about wanting to read something about their marriage and how happy he was with her--if he regrets it then he is most likely not giving her the love she deserves. Yes it sucks that she didn't realize his soulmate walked away with his integrity as well, but she is his wife, he stayed with her, that implies he LOVES her enough to stay. He is the one responsible for this. She might come off needy, but no one deserves to find out through a "third person" source that their husband has told everyone on the internet who cared to read how unhappy he is and not the one person who deserved to know.