By Anonymous - 15/09/2009 18:18 - United States

Today, I found out that the reason I hadn't gotten pregnant yet was because my husband had a vasectomy after the birth of his son. He even had the nerve to continously tell me, "it'll happen soon, baby" and let me believe we were trying. FML
I agree, your life sucks 60 502
You deserved it 3 993

Same thing different taste

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Is he the one who told you? Because if he's not, and if you're the extremely vengeful type, you should get pregnant (sperm bank or other method) and surprise him right back with the happy news.

Do what Jordan had Dr. Cox do on that one episode of Scrubs. Reverse vasectomy!

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Shmoopie4 0

Divorce him. He's a total loser.

what an assface!!! leave him for being such an ass!

aliealieawhoaa 0
HXCxSceneKidx 0

U didn't know ur husband had a visectomy? Wowww trust issues right here

GD4life 0

I know your feeling heartbroken but whatever you do don't leave him. Through sickness and through health.... not sex and fml.

Lol that's almost like saying "I know he beats you but you shouldn't leave him, because through sickness and health--!" No I'm not comparing this man to a guy who beats his wife, but 147's logic is completely flawed.

Leave his ass. NOW. What a ******* asshole. I'm so sorry. This would be a total dealbreaker for me - the lying more than anything! I know what it feels like to TTC for a long time and wonder what's going on when you can't get prenant. What he did to you was intentional emotional abuse. He is scum.

How did you not know he had a vasectomy? You can't have sex for at least a week afterward, depending on the dr. and how a man feels. This may be something you can pursue in court if you find the right lawyer. He deliberately mislead you into believing you are trying for children. I contact a lawyer!

they could work opposing shifts or not have sex frequently.

And you think this is because your dad was still producing sperm? LOL