hope the foods good lol

Or you could call the cops and they will make sure you get your wallet from him without any of his demands...

All if these hypocritical people talking about how it "serves you right" for having a one night stand like that excuses his behavior, probably because they assume you're female. If your post said "girl I hooked up with" people would be calling her a crazy bitch. Having sex is nothing to be ashamed of regardless of gender, and you shouldn't be chastised for it when men are congratulated for doing the same thing. It still doesn't mean it's okay for him to hold your personal property ransom. He is basically blackmailing you into going on a date with him. Sounds like a super nice guy.

What a manipulative ********. Blackmailing someone clearly not into you into a date so they can get thier damned property back is a crappy thing to do she show up ask for her wallet if he says no leave go straight to police station and report him for theft. the Smarmy entitled jerk that he is.

Have the person deliver it to the local PD Station just to be safe. You might be his last meal

what does he think this is, 27 dresses?!

That's blackmail...and creepy. If you don't want to go out with him, just call the cops and have them help get your wallet back. Problem solved.

Both are in the wrong here. OP had a one-night stand, which always end badly, and with someone she isn't interested in. Then she left the house in a rush, forgetting something of great importance, prompting the guy she isn't interested in to blackmail her in order to get said item back. This is why you don't bang people you don't know. OP, I guess let him take you out to dinner, but don't go back to his place. I hope he doesn't know where you live. You could always get a police escort home, I suppose.

Could someone please tell me why do you guys all think hes an gross creep? i bet he had no idea that she wasnt interestet in her and now want to meet her to clear stuff out! "thats blackmailing" quit acting like he said "i have your parents captured in my basement Marry me or i kill them"

YDI for having a one night stand with someone you're NOT interested in at all. Why did you sleep with him if there was no interest? I've admittedly had them, but it was at least with someone I was attracted to, and got along with. If you realized after the fact you should have been honest and told him rather than sneaking out. FYL however, because he was a dick for forcing you to have dinner with him to get your wallet back. That's pretty much theft if you refuse and he still keeps it. Also: what are all these comments about "Sexism" and crap. Both OP and the guy are in the wrong here. It really wouldn't matter if OP was the dude, and the guy was the chick. They'd still have both f*cked up.