By sweet23 - 18/08/2013 11:43 - Australia - Burleigh Heads

Today, I got fired from my job at an age care facility because I was too nice to my residents. My boss told me "They're deaf, blind and about to jump head first into the grave. We don't pay you to be kind." FML
I agree, your life sucks 54 016
You deserved it 3 070

sweet23_fml tells us more.

I think there was a bit of misunderstanding it was just my boss who thought that way, the ladies i work with are the most respectful and caring people i have ever met.

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Why do people treat the elderly so horribly? They are people too; they've just experienced a LOT more than most.

So are children, teens, married people, single people, and imaginary friends. Your point?

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That is rubbish. The elderly should be respected and treated with the type of kindness you'd present to a child. I absolutely detest when people treat our elders poorly because of their deteriorating sight, hearing and health. It disgusts me! Can you imagine what they feel? Some of them are dumped there without choice and forgotten and then they're not even allowed to receive kindness from the people who look after them? Bullshit. If my grandparents ever land in a nursing home like that I will take them out and let them live with me, even if it causes me to cut every luxury I currently enjoy. OP, keep your head high and keep that kindness - you were RIGHT, that boss is an asshole that will one day land in the same position and I hope he receives the kind of kindness he gives when he does. Let's hope he changes, but you stay the same.

You need to report this to whatever state agency is responsible for this facility. Also, do you want your job back? Go back and tell the douche bag you are contacting,all the residents families and tell then why you were fired and what he said. Mention you have,it on tape. Bring along an attorney for good measure.

Your boss reminds me off the Ben stiller character in happy Gilmore.. " your in my world now Grandma" :( you can appeal for unlawful dismissal.

Your life isn't ******. Report them to the appropriate authorities locally, count your blessings and find somewhere where they treat their residents like people, rather than cash cows. The point of a care home is exactly that. CARE. Ooh, makes me so mad!

DFresh503 8

It's people like your boss that make me want to never enter a home when I'm old. Sorry OP. it sounds like you really were better at your job than he is, and there are companies that put the kind I care you were providing first an foremost and will commend you for that care. Good luck in the future!

Wittledinosaure 7

I call bullshit. If this is true, your boss was making up an excuse to fire you. But seriously, no one gets fired for being too nice to old people. That doesn't interfere with the job at all.

kayteakay 26

Our culture is seriously effected by this. Other societies respect and learn from their elderly, we hide from the reality of death by hiding them away. It's pitiful and selfish.

He doesn't deserve to be the boss of that facility. Elderly people are super nice, they deserve to be treated with as much respect as everyone else. OP, ignore your ass of an ex-boss, you're awesome for being kind to the elderly.

Your boss is ridiculous and inhumane. spread your goodness to othwra where u will b appreciated. I would worry for the residents there. perhaps a formal complaint to their licensing body would b appropriate.