Judgemental People. Hahaha

i hate it when people are so judgemental. they dont even know the situation that person is in and starts thinking mad s*** about them already. like wtf?!

I totally agree, she's judgmental. She needs to get with the times. But I noticed some older people who were raised in maybe the 50s or below are all prim and proper. What you had in childhood usually stays with you. For instance, my grandpa was raised in a racist home and I think it's rubbed off on him a bit. It's sad, but I can't say I don't love him any less. So are we being judgmental by assuming the judgmental woman is a horrible person all around? No, she just strongly believes in babies after marriage. And that everyone should be like that. But it doesn't make her a bad person all around. Okay, now I'm rambling.

YDI for not knowing we're still in the 18th C. ::rolls eyes::

Her judgment was completely wrong, whether OP was married or not, or just not wearing her ring is really none of her business. But sadly unwed pregnancy is frowned on by lots of people, and as it happens more and more often instead of people accepting it more, many look down on it more. Really sad. But it could of simply be avoided if she hadn't told some stranger that she is pregnant. Especially when the way it's worded it sounds like she might have been embarrassed to have someone think she was sick because of flying. No shame there. No shame in being pregnant either. But I don't see the point in telling strangers about my pregnancies.

What an asshole ! Plus is there a law stating that when you're married you MUST wear a ring ? I've been married -officially, with all paperwork and signatures !- for almost twenty years and neither my wife nor myself have ever worn a ring.

What a stinky bitch.

You deserve it. Now think real hard sure we are in modern times but economically and mentally it is better to be married before you start making lil ones. Just people these days don't want to man up to their stupidity or mistakes. Children are a gift precious and have lost their value now. It seems like I'm making them to be a commodity :-/ but I digress. Kids today are lil brats and don't know who daddy is and are subjected to a ton of mess because they were bourne of a hook up. In a relationship of variable stability. All morals aside yes you can raise a child with multiple custody yes you can raise him or her by yourself but is that the best you are offering to your child. Myfiance and I want kids badly but, when we are married and can handle that huge charge. You are dealing with a human life people take that all to lightly these days.

... Judgemental. Gosh, what century are we living in? Congrats to you!

YDI. *****.