By Sansa - 22/10/2014 21:30 - Netherlands - Velp
Sansa_fml tells us more.
OP here. Just wanted to make clear that I wasn't drunk and he wasn't either. I still like this guy. Every time I see him I'm falling in love again. Point is that I'm really affraid this wil not work out (I hope it does, but still) And i'm not the type of girl who has sex with anyone this easy, so I'm really confused what to do with it. I guess I'll find out.
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Well that's cool
So you lost your virginity to your ex boyfriend? Of 6 years ago? That's uhm.. Interesting. Ydi for having sex with someone you broke up with. Fyl because my guess is that you're still not over him after all this time :/
She may not have lost her virginity to him... Ambiguous wording. It could be that it was just her first time with him as opposed to her first time ever. Not saying you're wrong btw!
Your comments are based on conjecture; she didn't say she broke up with him, or that she lost her virginity. I don't get why that is so hard to understand. Quit making assumptions.
it clearly states 'we broke up six years ago' I don't get why this is so hard to understand
I had my first boyfriend during sophomore year in high school. I wasn't ready for sex then and he never pushed the subject, so we simply never had sex. That doesn't mean I wouldn't jump his bones today, 8 years later, if I'm still as attracted to him today as I was back then. It all depends if the situation is right and both parties partake in the decision.
Maybe it's just me but I'd never have sex with one of my exes. We broke up for a reason, so having sex with them is one of the last things I'd do.
I never dated in high school, but my understanding is that high school relationships often end not because the two people no longer get along, but because circumstances, such as going to different colleges or moving out of state for work, separate the two and they simply drift apart. Perhaps that is the situation for OP.
Breaking isn't always crying and messy emotions. Maybe it was neutral. And even if it wasn't, 6 years a a very long time for something to rekindle and I really don't see a problem with that.
I'm sorry what? Was it a drunken fumble or do you still have feelings for him? Also I think most people look back on their first time as not that great anyway so hopefully you can put that behind you and on to better things.
Was it good?
well at least you got some.
Good job! Let's light that spark up again ?
Ydi op, next time learn to say no and only say yes when you are ready. Then you won't have this problem again. (regretting to have sex)
She never said she regretted it. She said it was with her ex, yeah, but that's probably because she thinks that she couldn't get laid by anyone else.
or maybe the FML part was waiting so long to get the chance with him? doubt it was because she thought she couldn't get some one else but still care about him and wasn't ready then but was now?
that's called back to square one...
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Well that's what I call taking it slow lol
So did you have sex with your second before your first?