Well, good luck! Also, I think sometimes our bodies know more about who is good for us than our brains.

Fear makes the Wolf seem bigger...

Well, I experienced a similar situation in the past. In my case, it didn't work out. But I just broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated on me, and I hope he changes and we can get back together. Why? Because I never loved anyone like I love him. So if you feel the same about your ex boyfriend, give it a try.

Well obviously not considering you were a virgin before....

Not necessarily, it may have been her first time with him as opposed to her first time ever.

Your username was all the explanation I needed.. lol good luck with everything OP!

Hopefully it all works out OP. You never know now that you have both had six years to figure out what you both want out of a relationship it may just work this time. I wish you all the best.

Considering you two first dated when you were teenagers and now you're adults, I'd say theres a good chance that it might work out. You've both matured over the 6 years hopefully. So if the feeling is mutual, I'd say give it a chance.

I think we all need to go with our gut. Physical attraction is undeniable and when you care for and like them it's better. No need to say you're easy, if there's genuine feelings on your part, you're doing what feels right. That's the way I see it :) good luck! I'm kinda in a limbo thing too. I like him but not sure how it's all gonna end up. Ah. Best of luck OP!

The exact same thing happened to me this year, just in a shorter time frame. My high school sweetheart of 3 years broke up with me, saying he needed to take a break to figure out who he was. I guess he was having some sort of existential crisis. Then he started dating the girl I was always worried would steal him (didn't last long, but still, wtf??). Anyway, it really hurt me. I was so mad at him that I promised myself that I would never take him back. However, since we were best friends before we started dating, we were trying to still be friends (this was months after the breakup). One day, we were hanging out, and I don't know...it just happened. We hooked up. I felt awful, because I've never been a fan of one night stands, and I never saw myself being one of those vulnerable, easy girls who hooks up with her ex. I was so mad at myself, and I really didn't know how to deal with it. A few days later, we talked, and we decided to get back together. I can honestly say that because we are communicating and because we know ourselves much better than we did before, this is the happiest we've ever been together. Give it a chance, and don't beat yourself up over it. You made a mistake, and that's okay. I'm not sure how I would have dealt with it if we hadn't gotten back together, but I guess it confirmed that the sex meant something, and that is what made it seem okay in my eyes. I think it meant something for you too. I hope everything works out. Sorry for the novel :P

#57 You love him, but he's not showing you proper love and respect in return. If you do get back together, he needs to understand that trust takes a long time to earn back and will never be the same as it was. Good luck!

You're an idiot. First of all, no one who's been raped would call it "having sex." Second of all, it's really not a big deal that they slept together after breaking up so long ago. A LOT can change over that period of time.

maybe they broke up because one moved or didn't have the time for a relationship and still have feelings for each other and more time? and if it was rape she wouldn't call it having sex and sure wouldn't post it here like to that. you have any clue how hard it is to even rembering something like that lead alone telling a bunch of strangers? idiot is not a strong enough word!

you're 14. why are you even commenting ?