#21: I was #9, up there. I didn't mean that everyone is super shallow or that all men only care about looks. I'm just saying that physical attraction is important, too. It's different when you meet people face-to-face and you know how their faces move when they speak, the various angles & oddities of their bodies. When it's this strange, slightly-artificial way of meeting people online, where you both just trade stats, photos, etc., then obvious the physical attraction ends up getting some very specific attention. It's great that you met your gf online and that it's working out for you. But imagine if, after you had gotten to know her, you just found her immensely unattractive, physically. I've had that happen, and been crushed. I don't think that I'm shallow at ALL. In my case, the guy looked a lot older than he'd said he was, which made me wonder if he'd been lying all along, and was also QUITE obese. I don't just mean a little - unhealthily, grossly fat. Has-trouble-getting-out-of-furniture fat. It matters. I'm sorry, but it does!

don't meet people online. that's just stupid. and he didn't look like the picture, because if he did, he wouldn't have to be desperate enough to meet people online, no offense.

Same kind of thing just happened to me.

you deserve it, you obviously weren't hitting it off because it was online. get out of your house and meet real people.

Now you sort of know what it's like to be a guy.

Girls reading this: Do not get conditioned wrongly. Past a certain extent, you don't need to look hotter and hotter. If you're "fugly", that's one thing, and, as much as "looks shouldn't matter", would you date a 400 lb, hairy, zitty guy with weird skin marks? Or even a 200 lb guy? Or a guy whose belt and shoes didn't match? It's more about keeping yourself healthy than being a hot model. More and more guys are becoming fed up with the chicks who have those C/D-cups, asses, abs, hair, beautiful skin, nails, because 9 times outta 10 they're just overall total bitches. That is, of course, unless they're players, "alpha males", or into the seduction field - but then again, why'd you want guys like that anyway, right? All's I'm saying is, personality DOES go hand in hand with your looks. And don't let this guy screw you up. Don't let him condition you to expect that the next guy who considers you the love of his life is lying. Well... some of them do. But what I'm saying is, don't think all guys are like this. Don't think they're pigs that just care about looks, but don't let yourself go either.

SHIITTTT that sucks, but i agree with 4 its the only true way but whatever maybe it just wasnt meant to be then

I'm guessing this wasn't ACTUALLY today, since not being in contact for less than a day means nothing. Sorry to hear that though, he doesn't deserve you.

that's why you meet people in reeealll life.

What #81 is trying to say is. Take care of yourself health-wise and treat others with the respect you believe you deserve. Is that right?