what's the FML? some men are creeped out and scared to have sex with there pregnant partner thinking it could harm the baby

Tell that bastard that husband of yours to cut this shit out. Lights out, eyes closed if he needs some adjustment time to the whole preggo sex thing, but you can't be expected to live however many more months under a regime of enforced celibacy.

what's the OP bitching about? some married couples don't have sex for years...

you don't need to be pregnant or think you may be to get an ultrasound, i had to get one once because of back problems i was having. #44, no one cares about your sex life

No it will NOT hurt the baby. Every baby site or doctor will tell you the same; YOU CAN HAVE SEX WHILE PREGNANT. In fact, it's GOOD for the pregnancy; it makes it easier. The only reason you can't would be if you have twins or multiples (then it's "you can only have sex before this time") or if your doctor advises against it for certain reasons. Refer to links I provided above (#26), or you can also see: http://www.parents.com/pregnancy/my-life/sex-relationship/pregnancy-sex-uncensored/ http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/sex-during-pregnancy/HO00140 http://www.webmd.com/baby/guide/pregnancy-sex http://www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancyhealth/sex.html http://www.marchofdimes.com/pnhec/159_516.asp http://www.healthsystem.virginia.edu/UVAHealth/peds_pregnant/sex.cfm http://www.ucsfhealth.org/childrens/medical_services/preg/care/pregSex.html http://www.umm.edu/pregnancy/000231.htm I could bring up a lot more links, and if I look hard enough probably medical journals, articles, books, etc...

I thought up a theory above about why she would be visiting the beautician; probably to try an instigate a romantic evening. She should talk to him and see why he won't go through with it. And are you seriously taking your ONE CASE, using "facts" that don't even apply to why or why not sex during pregnancy is good, to make an argument, when I've got an armada behind me? It makes the PREGNANCY easier. It doesn't affect the baby's DNA or future ability whatsoever. It just makes it easier to deal in the uterus with and easier to pop out. Your height, health, intelligence, and looks have absolutely nothing to do with how easy you were to carry about and push out... unless your DNA made you big boned but that's something different. That unite of the sperm and egg is what determines that. Sometimes it won't make a difference, you're right, but that doesn't mean it's harmful. I could eat this piece of lettuce, or I could eat this OTHER piece of lettuce. I chose the first piece and felt satisifed. Does that mean the other piece was going to kill me? No....

I wondered why a beautician is seeing her 'intimate parts' too, and I've got an ultrasound and it didn't have anything to do with a pregnancy. I mean, ultra sounds are even used on people's knees.

stfu, im giving all I got, my loins are currently on ice

Typical married woman. So how many times in the past few weeks did your husband ask for sex and you told him no?

If your getting an ultrasound it means your pregnant (well I am assuming so) Ever think your husband might not be comfortable prodding his penis near his soon-to-be childs face?