Well I think your bf should dump you for being an overreacting b***** that actually took her time to go on FML and write about how your boyfriend used your card as a coffee coaster and then think its the end of her life...wtf

That does suck. I can't imagine spending 3 hours on a card though, that is a bit much. I can sympathize though. One time I wrote a poem for my boyfriend, designed a graphic to go with it, printed it out, and framed it. When I gave it to him, the first thing he did was point out the fact that I had put it in the frame crooked.

When I get cards and such of my girlfriend I do pretty much the same but if it was hand made and I could see that she had made it herself then I guess I would take care of it or actually display it somewhere.

that sucks, but guys never appreciate stuff like that, it doesn't mean he doesn't care about you

Men can be such douchebags sometimes. What the hell happened to romance? Yes making a card shows sentiment and thought! Seriously FYL & FML coz there just aint any "good" guys left in the world to appreciate the simple things. Dude even if you hate the card, have some consideration that it was made especially for you. Throw it away later on, not when you just get it! FTW

While it was a really sweet gesture to make him that nice of a card, what else is he supposed to do with it? I guess he could've hung it up on the fridge or a bulletin board or something...

Well she probably thought that making something herself would be more personal and meaningful than buying a useless gift... I know how you feel girl...I'm paying for college myself so most of the time I'm broke...when my hubby and I were just dating, I once wanted to send him a card for his birthday at least. He's American, I'm German and I couldn't find a good birthday card in English over here. So bought a German one, copied it by hand (!) with the writing translated in English...cut the English copy up as a puzzle and put it into the German card and sent it to him...he never did the puzzle so he obviously didn't even care what the card said. Sure it's not the end of the world or I wouldn't have married that guy...but it does hurt if you don't only put effort into something, but also some T-H-O-U-G-H-T and then it's not appreciated. I kindly told him not to ever expect any special gifts from me ever again and never in my life will I get him a card again. Made him feel like shit when I brought it up so directly and he felt bad for it. Talk to him and tell him that it hurt your feelings. Most likely he didn't even think about it...and if you don't tell him he'll never know...communication is the key to any successful relationship.

lulz at #14

you choose an ass, YDI

The guy's obviously in desperate need of coasters! If you haven't kicked him to the curb by then, this Sweetest's Day, get him a cheapassed set of coasters.