By draegoncode - 26/07/2010 04:34 - France

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Today, I told my girlfriend of 2 years that I was sexually abused as a kid. She was only the third person I've told. She reacted by breaking up with me because I "might do something" to her kids. FML
I agree, your life sucks 70 615
You deserved it 4 526

Same thing different taste

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FFML_314 11

Abuse is a horribly traumatic thing to endure at any point in your life. I'm sorry OP that you had to go through that. I hope the person that hurt you is rotting in jail or in hell. I have 0 tolerance for abusers. I hate people that make excuses for someone that's abusive. You shouldn't be able to walk this earth if you allow such evil to escape from your body! I have dealt with so many sex offenders and it makes me sick to think about the things these people would do. Your girlfriend is obviously being insensitive, but she may just be scared.

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tinybear93 0

it's not meant to be then. because iff she really cared she would still love you so fyl what a bitch she should understand and feel bad.

oarisimo 4

wow. good riddance to her! you deserve wayyyy better. and who the hell would put ydi???

ok for the ppl that are saying that he only told three ppl and then the world on FML well I don't see a real name on his username and anyways who the hell is gonna recognize him as "that guy from across the street" anyways. and the second thing I wanna say to the ppl that are calling her a bitch; you guys don't know what was going through her head and the circumstances there were. you ppl have no right to say she was insensitive as the OP commented she said she was sorry for what had happened to him. I don't know if she acted on emotion or logic, but she was scared for what might happen to her children and acted. although she was wrong to act so suddenly, I think she had a valuable reason to break up with him. wrong or not it was her decision. I am not siding with herm, I want to make that clear. she should have had enough trust towards him to actually sit down and have conversation with OP and see what his point of view was on the matter of child abuse was. IF ( after the conversation) she still thought of him as a potential abuser, then she should have acted. but not so suddenly like she did. I'm really sorry OP =[ and again for the ppl who ate saying she's a bitch; really you need to think things through a little I mean really I'm only 14 and I think things through. you need to think on both points of view before judging ppl. I read every single comment before me before I commented. never jump to conclusions. =b

But you just realIe that just because someone was sexually abused themselves, that in no way means that the victim is going to act in the same way. Nobody is saying she shouldn't protect her children, but it's her logic that makes absolutely no sense. With how she is thinking, anybody who has been raped or molested is apparently a bad person.

happymonkie 0

if I knew that girl I would probably punch her in the face. that is messed up. and u def didn't deserve it.

FederalAgent 0

wow that sucks and if she tells anyone it'll will suck more

andreezy273 0

give me her name and address. I'll make her rethink that shit. :@ stupid hoe your better off man. your a badass and she's a *****. go get yoself a hottie and **** her brains out. it'll make you feel better ;)

No. That's NOT the reason she broke up with you. She thought you were ugly but she needed a different reason to broke up with you.

Wow, really #187? You gotta kick the OP while he's down? You're an asshole.