Intimacy: Today, I told my husband that while he was away I had had a miscarriage....

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By sadsadlady - 14/12/2009 20:25 - Canada

Today, I told my husband that while he was away I had had a miscarriage. His response? "If you can't take care of our baby while it is still inside you, how can I trust you to take care of it when it comes out?" FML

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By Anonymous - 05/04/2019 18:00

Today, I realised how little my husband trusts me after I told him I was pregnant and the first words out of his mouth were, “Is it mine?” FML

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By Blindsider - 28/03/2023 12:00

Today, I had my second miscarriage. My husband responded by throwing a bitch fit because I "totally blindsided him with this miscarriage shit” knowing he wanted kids, and if he'd known he wouldn’t have married me in the first place. He threw his wedding band in the trash and stormed off. FML

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By Anonymous - 16/04/2021 23:59 - New Zealand - Wellington

Today, I had a miscarriage. My partner doesn't understand why I'm upset, saying, "It wasn't even a real baby yet." FML

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By Lost what I never knew I had - 15/03/2025 18:00 - United States

Today, my husband rushed me to the hospital, and we were told that I'd had a miscarriage. Neither of us knew I was pregnant. FML

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By greenchan - 25/02/2011 05:12 - United States

Today, I had to take an emergency contraceptive. I was talking to my boyfriend about it, and I told him that my stomach really hurt. His response? "Aw. That's just the baby dying." FML

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By Olivia23 - 08/07/2021 11:00

Today, my husband threw an epic temper tantrum because I wouldn’t have sex with him. I recently suffered from a miscarriage and the thought of anything going on down there makes me uncomfortable. He eventually calmed down and said, "Fine, just don’t be surprised if I end up cheating." FML

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By Anonymous - 08/09/2020 14:01 - United States - Waterville

Today, I spent four hours at the ER because I had a miscarriage. The father of the baby was being sweet and supportive while I was there and checked in on me after I got home. Six hours after we found out we lost our baby, he asked for a threesome. He still doesn’t understand what’s wrong. FML

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By Anonymous - 29/06/2011 23:52 - United States

Today, my boyfriend tried to tell me that he was worried our child might not be mine because he was cheating on me when I got pregnant. FML

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By jjjjjjmmmmm92 - 20/07/2010 23:08 - United States

Today, I was at work, when a co-worker began to shake a near empty box. Without thinking, I shouted "What if there was a baby in there? You just killed it!" I then remembered she recently suffered a miscarriage. FML

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By Anonymous - 17/08/2022 12:00

Today, after I got pregnant off a dude who turned out to be married, and he'd told me he’d support me and the baby on the side, I had a miscarriage. Now he's pretending he doesn't even know me, and I can’t even tell his wife because without the baby, I can’t even prove we had sex that one time. FML

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Tuesday 15 December 2009 3:54

That's effed up I mean, REALLY effed up Damn.

sweatnut 0

Tuesday 15 December 2009 6:24

WTF. I hope this isn't true. if it is then you need to leave him. That is one of the cruelest, hurtful insensitive things Ive heard in a long time. My wife and I lost our first child 4 years ago to a miscarriage and I still get upset by it, thankfully we have 2 beautiful children now. leave that loser.

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jorgetheleader 0

Friday 18 December 2009 7:27

thats helllllllllllla funny. but sooo ****** up, ahahaha

marina1996 5

Friday 18 August 2017 16:45

you know what else would have been hella funny. if you hadnt been the sperm cell that won.

dragonflygal 0

Friday 18 December 2009 8:54

sounds like he's using it to blame you for his guilt. he's hiding something...

dirtysoapflakes 2

Sunday 20 December 2009 0:10

tht sucks. At least he doesnt think you killed it though - going from 'holy shit, what am i going to do?' to 'aaw man, im on my own again' is bad enough, without idiot boyfriends thinking that you killed it, idiot boyfriends who despite your age, still think that you should raise the kid together. It's these kinds of things that makes you ridiculously overeact to everything and throw a table at the wall of your english literature classroom. im sorry for your loss, whether you planned the pregnancy or not.

Sia_Will 13

Monday 25 July 2016 16:51

Umm, what?

lov3ly 0

Sunday 20 December 2009 4:38

thats...wow terrible. im sorry =[

phantombrother 4

Monday 21 December 2009 16:28

You're in Newfoundland, right? People fall off fishing boats all the time in Newfoundland . . .

lovestinks456 0

Monday 21 December 2009 17:54

what the ****!!!! that must have been hard for you!!! I I was him I would comfort you and say we could try again!!! DIVORCE the ass!!

lacyrenee 0

Tuesday 22 December 2009 15:07

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Tuesday 22 December 2009 15:10

does he realize that having a miscarriage does not necessarily mean that you wernt taking good care of your self, but could mean that the baby wasn't healthy to begin with, and probably wouldn't have survived?? my sister had a miscarriage and the doctor said it wa normal. FYI: your husband is PSYCHO and INSANE and doesn't care about anyone but HIMSELF.