By sadsadlady - 14/12/2009 20:25 - Canada

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Today, I told my husband that while he was away I had had a miscarriage. His response? "If you can't take care of our baby while it is still inside you, how can I trust you to take care of it when it comes out?" FML
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Bran_Dizzle_ 0

That's effed up I mean, REALLY effed up Damn.

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sweatnut 0

WTF. I hope this isn't true. if it is then you need to leave him. That is one of the cruelest, hurtful insensitive things Ive heard in a long time. My wife and I lost our first child 4 years ago to a miscarriage and I still get upset by it, thankfully we have 2 beautiful children now. leave that loser.

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PsychoGorgeous 0

This is a TRUE FML. I'm so sorry for your loss, and the stress of your jerk husband on top of that. Please try to keep your head up.

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omghehehe 0

:( Sorry... I don't condone violence, but he needs to get his ass kicked! What he said to you, is so horrible, it's dumbfounding. If it was a joke, he's still a prick for it. You don't joke about sh*t like that.

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KierRadcliffe 8

How the f*ck can you say she should be glad about a miscarriage.??!! Your a douche.

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gutless86 0

i am so sorry for your loss, and i pray you have a succesful pregnancy soon. as for your husband...i agree with what Amc 5212, but first get pregnant, THEN have him sleep on the couche for the rest of the pregnancy.

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Reality_bites 14

Three words came to mind when I was reading this. He's an arsehole. Assuming that you were happy to hear that you were pregnant and that you were taking care of yourself to achieve the best possible outcome (ie healthy baby born), now not only do you have to grieve the loss but he's making it out to be your fault as well. Arsehole. Miscarriage is more common than people realise and even if the mother does everything right within the first trimester, there is no guarantee that the pregnancy will be successful. That's why you should never announce until 12 weeks have passed.

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movies12 0

You know what OP, your husband is a jerk. I hope u honeslty made/make him suffer, for what he said to u.

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Banez 0

That is really screwed up. Not even funny

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executivemom 0

I know how difficult miscarriages can be. Just try to remember that it usually happens because there is something wrong with the fetus and your body realizes it. in this case it was probably rejecting your jerkoff of a husbands genes. Your better off not raising a child with this man.

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