By Anonymous - 19/04/2016 15:59 - United States - De Soto

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Today, I was at a party. A guy kept looking at me, so I tried to strike up a conversation with him. I realized he was drunk when he slurred, "Ya know, you're the only girl I've met that's fat AND flat chested!" There goes my self-esteem. FML
I agree, your life sucks 21 331
You deserved it 2 302

Same thing different taste

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Insults are like an ocean and your body is like a ship. You can't sink unless you choose to let the water inside you.

Some people are just assholes. Sorry OP, don't let it get to you

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Aw don't feel too bad, being flat-chested/having a small chest can be fun and have lots of advantages ^^ (some people like it too!)

Mathalamus 24

that's why i learned how to operate fine without any self esteem. because people will repeatedly destroy it without remorse.

nickfraser98 11
TeacherTeacher 11

Why does your self esteem depend on the approval of a drunk moron?

Go cry for attention somewhere else. And from now on, I bet you won't try to flirt with drunks at parties. Duh.

Oh, shut the hell up. Being upset about being insulted* is not crying for attention. And she was probably only flirting with him because she thought he was interested. *I'm sure she's lovely, but I'm guessing he meant that as an insult and she clearly took it that way.

I never understand these types of comments. This is FML, it's literally the exact place you go to complain about shitty things that happen to you and get attention for it. Also, no where does it say she was flirting either. It says "struck up a conversation," which usually means they were just talking. Even if she was though, so what? Lots of people flirt while drinking at parties because alcohol can help loosen you up, and him being drunk is still no excuse for him being an asshole.

Maybe a hint to start losing some weight? Being overweight is not at all healthy. Plus, many guys, including myself, like flat chested girls.

When we say "fat," though, are we talking obese or just a bit chubby? Obesity is obviously not healthy.

You know what, hon, I know that what he said hurts, but neither one of those things stops you from being beautiful. You don't have to be a size-two D-cup to be beautiful. I know it's easier said than done, but he's a drunk idiot and he's not worth it. I don't know what his problem is, but clearly he's got a big one.

Body shaming is so stupid. Every single person on this earth is flawed. Even the most beautiful are insecure (more so than the rest of us) and that's why they bully. It's a proven fact that bullies are pathetic and fear what's different out of ignorance. Pity them rather than taking what they say to heart. That's what they want and need for their power. Take it away and they are nothing.

ouijacorn 9

Don't let some drunk asshole shape your self esteem; his asinine opinions don't make you any less beautiful.

don't let some stupid talk of a drunkard bring you down, c'mon op, everybody knows they act mean cause they hate themselves for drinking and drink because they hate themselves, taking anything they say seriously is nonsense! God made you perfect for someone just the way you are, wanting to look like something out of a magazine is nothing but commercializations brainwash!