I could easily fall in love with a kind and loyal gal who smiles a lot, and I prefer smaller breasts.

Your mom is right, but about the wrong kind of guy. Choose someone deeper than an overturned paper plate, OP. We exist.

OP parents say terrible things my mom is an alcoholic and she's said some horrible things. Also, lot's of people age like wine and others like milk. It's hard, but it does get better sometimes. Family is more who you love not blood relation.

Just tell boys you offer 'los tres platos' and you'll be popular no matter how you look.

is it suppose to be 'long list' instead of 'laundry list'?

Op, I am not sure you will look at this, but personality is one of the most attractive things to have. Being a good person and trying your hardest will get you a lot more friends and relationships in life. People are drawn to happy, well adjusted people (which your mother is trying hard to prevent.) If you truly dislike yourself, ask some friends to help you find more flattering clothes. You can get a hair cut. If it truly bothers you. But if you like who you are, then don't like a bitter old woman shape who you are.

Don't ask your mother those questions. She obviously has some serious issues. Instead, make yourself into the person YOU would like to date. Seriously, it works! Take care of your body, develop interests, get out to some internet Meetup Groups (Google it). Go forth into the world and enjoy being you, then you WILL attract people if you have stuff that's yours and stuff that's fun going on in your life, someone will want to share it. Sounds like mom is bitter and has let a lot of venom drip down on you. IGNORE HER. Who married best out of all the ladies I know? My cousin. My cousin weighs about 300lbs. She is middle aged and has two daughters, BUT, she has a cool life she made for herself and a lot of self confidence. She works with the positive in her life, not the negative. When the right guy came along (and yes, he was rich and yes loves her like crazy) she was ready, even though she was not perfect.

They are interested in you, you're just going after the wrong guys. What you usually go for, go down a level. Get to know them and then ask them on dates. If your hair and face is such a problem, try styling it differently, dying it or getting a hair cut but only if you want to. Face wise, small amount of makeup to look natural. Relationships aren't too much of a big deal, anyway. Focus on your studies and career first. :)

You shouldve said, "im surprised you even got someone to have me. Because your so ugly. I get all my looks from you"

Ouch... My grandmother said I was too short