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I'm 23 and have 2 kids, 18 months and 6 months, and people look at my husband and I funny because I look rather young. First of all OP, how do you know they weren't married? Second, how do you know she wasn't older? Third, they could have planned on the two children they have and decided they didn't want anymore. My husband and I use protection because we're done having kids, it doesn't mean the two we have weren't planned.
I wish I could give you way more than 1 thumb up!
Agreed! Well, it was really mean. But still genious!
first of all, she might have been babysitting, you don't know. secondly, she might be older than you think. I am 26 years old and have braces. People confuse me as a teen mother all the time! used to make me mad, now i just laugh.
You definitely didn't deserve to get assaulted. However, you did deserve to get reamed out for assuming quite a few things about the "girl". Such as, the fact that she was actually a girl and not a young looking woman and the fact that those were her children. Also, even if they were her children, and she was a teenager, she is being responsible now by purchasing the condoms. Why would you ridicule her for doing the right thing? Regardless of the poor choices she made in the past she's making sound ones now. What if her boyfriend wasn't there and the outcome was only her being too ashamed to purchase protection for herself in the future? No one should be made to feel ashamed about taking control of their reproductive health; Regardless of their age or parental status. This just made you out to sound like a jerk. Maybe keep your judgemental opinions to yourself in the future when it pertains to someone else's sex life.
I would think that too but wouldnt say it out loud
ditto
That sucks. But you shouldn't be so quick to judge. My bestfriend is 15 and she's literally ALWAYS babysitting her niece and nephew. But even though she's only 4'11 she seems much older to strangers and people always walk up to her and are like, "Wow, your kids are so cute." and then she'll awkwardly smile and say thanks or something even though they're not her kids lol
Women young or old, after they have kids, still wear condoms you know.
Actually, it's the men that do so. The female condom was a miserable failure.
The OP made the correct statement but for the wrong reason. It's possible that the pregnancies were not planned in which case it's a little late for the guy to start using his only form of birth control. It's also a little late for her because she chose to have kids with a man with a White Knight Complex who feels justified in expressing his feelings by beating up complete strangers. I'm sure that the kids will turn out fine.
^ the truth has been spoken.....
71, so she should have more kids because she already has two? Your logic is anything but logic. Big deal she had two kids, get over it. She's being responsible by buying condoms. Also, we don't even know for sure that those are her kids.
You're correct that we don't know that the kids may not be his. What I am saying if you're a dude you should be responsible for your birth control. We can't ask women to do it but allow men to abdicate responsibility.
...that makes no sense. Both parties should have some responsibility for birth control. Why the heck can't you ask the woman to be responsible? She can easily get on the pill or some other hormonal birth control or buy condoms herself, even both, like I do. I don't understand why you wouldn't want both sexes to be proactive about that sort of thing.
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You sir, have reached level 99 of Assholishness and YDI.
I wish I could hit YDI twice. Douche.