By koreageis - 08/12/2016 20:42 - United States - Medina

Today, I was scrolling through a bunch of old posts that my boyfriend's ex had posted about me on Facebook from a fake account she used to stalk and harass me for months. It was then that I figured out that one of my friends and my mother had been helping her the whole time. FML
I agree, your life sucks 10 152
You deserved it 675

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OP here. I made an account just to give everyone more details. This girl and I were friends a loooong tine ago and stopped being friends for many reasons. Well, when she was dating my boyfriend she cheated on him and he left her. Over a year later, I started dating him after she gave me her blessing and told me about her new fiancé and kid on the way and about how happy she was. A year later I find the fake account under a different name filled with posts about me, my love life and about how awful we did her. One post blatantly said that my mother called her all the time mocking me and giving her my personal info so she can stalk me even more. I also found many comments where my mom asked her to text her or call her and many comments from my friend, who is someone I've known for four years but talk to every now and then, talking about me as well. Apparently both of them pretended to be on my side while they helped her stalk me, my boyfriend and roommate. This girl found out who I was living with, where I was living and even knew everything about my love life because of my mother. I've deleted all my social media, including my Facebook just to get this girl off my back. My mother denied everything, didn't apologize and hasn't attempted to speak to me since. I last spoke to her about a month ago, more or less.

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What kind of parent encourages and actively participates in their child being harassed and stalked? You need to confront both of them OP, if they deny it, show them evidence, and honestly, I wouldn't speak to either of them after that. They have no regard for your well-being and saw nothing wrong with making you feel humiliated, violated and unsafe. You shouldn't have people that do that to you in your life.

Mom: "Talk about her earlobes as much as possible—she's super self-conscious about them." Friend: "Oh, yeah, and make sure you use the word 'literally' all the time and incorrectly. It drives her crazy!" Stalker: "Uh, maybe we should plan this out somewhere other than public posts on Facebook." Mom: "You kidding? She's not exactly the most observant gal. I give her a few months before she notices this conversation while scrolling through your posts."

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Wtf!?! You need to have a "talk" with your mom. To hell with your friend, time to kick that bitch to the curb. But your mom sounds like she's got some issues. Way to be a parent, Geezzz!

OP here. I made an account just to give everyone more details. This girl and I were friends a loooong tine ago and stopped being friends for many reasons. Well, when she was dating my boyfriend she cheated on him and he left her. Over a year later, I started dating him after she gave me her blessing and told me about her new fiancé and kid on the way and about how happy she was. A year later I find the fake account under a different name filled with posts about me, my love life and about how awful we did her. One post blatantly said that my mother called her all the time mocking me and giving her my personal info so she can stalk me even more. I also found many comments where my mom asked her to text her or call her and many comments from my friend, who is someone I've known for four years but talk to every now and then, talking about me as well. Apparently both of them pretended to be on my side while they helped her stalk me, my boyfriend and roommate. This girl found out who I was living with, where I was living and even knew everything about my love life because of my mother. I've deleted all my social media, including my Facebook just to get this girl off my back. My mother denied everything, didn't apologize and hasn't attempted to speak to me since. I last spoke to her about a month ago, more or less.

Well, damn. Do you have any inclination as to why your mother decided to do this? I can't imagine, being betrayed like this is horrific.

I think it's because she wasn't around when I was growing up and she cares more about having as many friends as possible than having a relationship with her children. She's done similar things to my dad and pretty much everyone on her side of the family either to make other people like her or to get drugs somehow. They warned me that she'd stab me in the back but she's been in my life for four years now so it came as a bit of a shock

I seriously hate your mom and your so called friend. No offense but they are both a piece of shit. If I were you, I'd cut them off completely. Both of them obviously don't deserve to be in your life. What kind of mother does that??? A worthless one.

I'm so sorry. that's just low of your mother and friend.

Well now it's time for her tone out again. That just sucks, dear.

time for a$$holes and elbows. ide beat my mom's a$$ and anybody involved. jail time wold be a vacation knowing they were in the hospital.. you just don't get away with things like that in my book. no matter who or how old you are.

Gerber29 3

Jesus Christ I'm so sorry that happened to you

Sounds like my mother. Watch out. It'll only get worse.

goddamn, not only is she a bitch, your mom and friend are too!!! I'm SO sorry that happened to you!