By mel - 18/01/2013 23:18 - New Zealand - Auckland

Today, I went to a family dinner. My grandma wasted no time calling me a slut for not wearing a dress, my dad called my police officer boyfriend a "fucking pig", and then he told my mother to "put a cock in it" when she defended me. No wonder I hardly ever visit these people. FML
I agree, your life sucks 44 031
You deserved it 3 136

Same thing different taste

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wannabesinger 16

I think that's the first time I've ever heard of anyone being called a **** for NOT wearing a dress. And here I thought my family was weird.

SApprentice 34

Your family has some serious issues then, your father especially. From this one example, he seems very abusive, at least verbally, and I feel bad for you for having to be raised around a man like that. You should try to cut them out of your life, to protect yourself. Don't exhaust your emotional resources trying to change your relationship with them, because they're not going to change unless they want to. Maybe you could try to find a way to talk to your mother, though, without involving the others, since she stuck up for you. She's probably pretty miserable herself, being stuck around that all the time, so she might appreciate having some more communication with you, OP. Your life does suck though, and I honestly hope it'll get a little better for you. I hate abusive parental figures.

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Well the good news is, your mom tried to stick up for you. even if she failed

Sometimes you just gotta drop your family like hot potato.

Yeah I hear that a lot the "you're a **** for wearing pants" It's like uhm pants make it harder to have sex. So **** means virgin?

And suddenly I have the best family ever.

If your boyfriends a police officer you should tell him to beat the shit out of them

Nah, just have him run around the house and shoot at people. (Yes, this is sarcasm)

This is a very messed up family op. I'm so sorry you have to deal with these people.

At least your mother defended you? Take what good you can, OP. And never visit while grandma and dad are around again. Or let the boyfriend hear Daddy's comments. Let's see how Dad likes a day or two in jail for abuse of an officer.