why should anybody feel sorry for this chick? it's the wife that should you be feeling sorry for. this chick needs to get over it. so what if she wasted six months, so did the wife and probably many more. you're story isn't the only one, so gtfoi. there are plenty of other guys.

suckkks! but i think anybody with a brain would be able to figure out that there was something suspicious about him

send them a card... signed "your girlfriend _____"

ouch. does he wear his wedding ring around you? cause if he does, you were stupid not to notice

First of all, anniversaries come once a year. Once. A. Year. Second, how the **** did he hide that from you? You're doofy enough to celebrate half anniversaries but you never visit his house?

Congrats!!

After a while you are as much or more at fault for not being more inquisitive about his life. He must like women that are clueless. It doesn't mean that he isn't a cheating liar and should suffer some consequences for his actions. Chalk it up to a lesson learned and move on with your life. Forget the money, cause I have a feeling that was the main reason you were with him, and find true love!

I would tend to think that tell-tell signs would be present, but if one is interested in another it is so easy to overlook and ignore all these signs, it is easy to say that she is an idiot, or should have suspected something is up, but most likely she was seeing with her heart and not her eyes or brain. She needs to learn from this mistake and move on

tell the wife and get back at the douche together

what a loser