By michelleccali - 21/12/2009 10:32 - United States
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Ok, yes I am a teenager. The reason I was so upset over him not doing anything for our 6 months together was because he made sure I got him a present, and told me a bunch of times that he was planning something fun. So he got my hopes up for nothing. Then when I got sad about it, he got mad at me and pretty much ignored me.
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Wow... why don't you whine a little bit? Six months? Not that big of a deal, hate to break it to you. Why didn't you get HIM a present or take HIM out to dinner to make him feel better? Even if you are young, and even if it is a big deal, you need to quit your whining and be there for him. If you cared about him enough, then not getting a present or not going out to dinner wouldn't be a big deal. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over four years now (and yes, we were young, too, I was fifteen when we started dating and we never celebrated our six month anniversary, thank you). We didn't even get to see each other for our four year because we go to different colleges in different states and when I came home for Thanksgiving, our anniversary "gift" was just getting to see each other and that was enough. People who expect a buttload of gifts from a significant other are full of crap. Get over yourself.
Thank you! You helped to prove the theory I'm working on.
Did. You. Not. Read. Her. Damn. Response.?
Same here. We know it's been at least two years, but what date are we supposed to specify as our anniversary? When we met, when I first cooked for him, when we kissed, when we had sex, when we said we loved each other, when he moved in with me? It all seems rather arbitrary. When we get married, we'll probably celebrate anniversaries.
did you even try to understand him? talk about taking your boyfriend for granted.........that's why he was probably whining in the first place.
It's nice to know that you can understand our entire relationship and me from about 4 sentences. Get a life.
Why have you posted this on FML, if you didn't want people's opinions on it ? What do you want ? Overall approval about how your boyfriend is "apparently" a dick ? Sheesh.
wow all of you ppl who are scolding this girl for being an insensitive bitch aren't seeing the big picture. if you seriously think the girl is a whiny bitch for thinking that her BF is kinda loopy for punching himself in the face, you ppl obviously have mental problems of your own. i guarantee you if you saw some random person in class or at work randomly punching themselves in the face you would immediately think they have mental problems. but since its someones BF on their 6 month anniversary you think the girl is insensitive and whiny because her Bf dropped her off at her house so he can go home. The BF is obviously the unstable one of the two and didnt want his gf to be around his mental breakdown. sure it woulda been nice for the girl to try to comfort him but you dont know that she tired and the bf wasnt having any of it. PPl like you who scold a girl for something crazy a guy does obviously have no respect for anything or anyone
THANKYOU! Someone makes some sense here! This is NOT her fault and anyone reprimanding her, calling her selfish, or blaming her for her boyfriend's mood has apparently failed to notice that the boyfriend is acting in a VERY unstable way. It's not like she's punching him in the face - he's doing it to himself. She's not out of line for wanting to go out on their anniversary - they're teens, 6 months is a big deal. Why is no one concerned that the boyfriend is engaging in serious self-injurious behavior?
You deserve to have your teeth knocked down your throat and be dumped you selfish ******* bitch.
You're an idiot.
your boyfriend clearly has a lot that bothers him and upsets him but he probably doesn't post it on FML. WTF is wrong with you! who gives a crap that it's your anniversary when your boyfriend feels you can help him but instead whine about HIS trouble on here trying to make us sympathetic towards you. my god.. he should dump you. F his life.
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Monthly anniversary? How stupid.
6 month anniversary? Get a life, you greedy little girl.