By michelleccali - 21/12/2009 10:32 - United States
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Ok, yes I am a teenager. The reason I was so upset over him not doing anything for our 6 months together was because he made sure I got him a present, and told me a bunch of times that he was planning something fun. So he got my hopes up for nothing. Then when I got sad about it, he got mad at me and pretty much ignored me.
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Don't reward his manipulative, attention-seeking behavior. You obviously deserve better than this guy, who sounds like he's got a profound personality disorder. If he were to go to a doctor, get some meds and therapy, and straighten his shit out, then I'd say he'd be worth the risk. But while you're with him, I guarantee you - it'll be non-stop drama, and it will probably lead to suicide threats. However, if this is the kind of thing you like, then by all means, spend your life with whack-jobs. I'm sure you'll be soooo happy and fulfilled.
So you just expect a gift from him? How could you be so damn selfish? YDI!
Your boyfriend cried, threw a tantrum, and went to his mom. And your problem is he didn't by you a present or take you to dinner. Calmly suggest to him that you go out for Happy Meals.
I'm not sure you understand the word "anniversary" if you think there is one at six months.
http://www.ihatestacy.com/index.php?id=f40fbf1dbbdcd5e7c6c45118d5abe098
6 months is not an anniversary.
it's only 6 months and most likely your gonna get dumped cause you couldn't have comfort your bf clearly all he wanted was some kind of comfort from you. now his his mom is gonna probably most likely talk shit and say no one is good enough for her boy
Punching oneself in the face is not normal, I'd suggest you either try to help him out (maybe by going to see a therapist with him), or leaving. If he is physically violent to himself, he could be to you, which is obviously an unsafe situation to be in.
I would like to suggest "hexamensaversary" as the appropriate term here. Also, I'm just gonna guess from the evidence that you and your boyfriend are somewhere around high school freshmen age, or even junior high. That would explain celebration of extra milestones and excessive emo-boyness. In fact, if you are anywhere under the age of 17, don't worry, the boys will grow out of it. Oh, and so will you.
Nope, hexamensaversary is not appropriate, since hexa is Greek and the rest is derived from Latin. Semensaversary, or semianniversary are better. As for punching himself - well, he has probably screwed something up badly, so he's mad at himself. It's not being emo or something.
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Monthly anniversary? How stupid.
6 month anniversary? Get a life, you greedy little girl.