By lonestar - 03/02/2010 13:57 - United States

Today, my boyfriend accused me of deleting my texts from my phone because I'm afraid of him finding out about another man in my life. Truth is, I don't have a life outside of him. FML
I agree, your life sucks 33 173
You deserved it 5 704

Same thing different taste

Top comments

pepetto 0

awww poor you :( just be happy ur not cheating tho and that ur a gd person :)

AGGoddess 2

Do you really want to be with a guy who doesn't trust you?

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You need to GET a life outside of him. When people get into a serious relationship, they sometimes tend to alienate others. If the relationship fails, you have no one to help you pick up the pieces. You need to plan girls' nights or something without your SO.

EV34 6

^ hahahaha!! ur bf must really be insecure about himself if he thinks u are cheating. plus WTF it's ur freaking phone u can do what u want with it!

Start building a life outside of him.. sooner or later his trust issues are going to get mighty old.

so where's the funny part? what's with these stupid fmls, that aren't really fmls?

I agree, this is what I was going to say. My mom's boyfriend says my mom is cheating all the time. True is he was cheating. It sucks. However, not always true, they could be insecure as well, may not think they are good enough for you and scared you may leave.

Shannon2122009 0

this sounds like my life! I understand ur pain!

KayBizz 0

VERY sad for a man to do that. insecurity's for lil boys who can't last more than 2 minutes :)

thenewone 5

if both of you are so codependent, I believe this relationship will cause much more harm than good on both of you individually. OP: no boy should be your whole life, specially when he seems to be this insecure. This might sound harsh or offensive, but the best for you is to see a therapist. Trust me, it would make you a much happier person, and would do you so much better.

what you have is a codependent relationship where you focus on pleasing his needs before yours, if you can even identify your needs and wants. and he sounds like a domestic violence case waiting to happen. get help or get out. fast.