tell him. if youdon't know how to tell him straight up, suggest you two take it easy and have slow sex. try a different position or something. and you do and enjoy it more, tell him you like the slow way better. or even better, tell or you can show him exactly what you like, how fast, how much pressure, etc. he'll be happy to learn and please you. after all, a woman who gets satisfied will want more sex! ;)

Ha!

I started having that problem with my boyfriend. He would get overexcited at the idea of making me come, and that would distract him ... a lot. I went ahead and talked to him about it and he happily said that he would try to improve. He did and now he's vastly better at pleasing me and our sex life is awesome. It seems like your guy actually likes to please you too (crazy, I know), since he basically asked what he was doing wrong and what you wanted instead. Instead of being honest, you decided to deprive both parties of that pleasure. Well, boo-hoo for you.

They'll never know what they're doing wrong unless we tell them

Lurk moar, 19

Wait for peridx then, he can educate you in the ways of the internet

Please communicate properly and it's the key for a good relationship than killing things... Good luck!!! No ones perfect but if we present it in right away, ppl are receptive to improve things

Tell him

I think you might wanna give communication a try. Be careful to give him constructive feedback about the things you would like him to do, instead of destroying his confidence by telling him he acts like a rabid dog.

He will keep doing the same thing unless you instruct him otherwise