By tayymeds - 12/03/2014 07:44 - United States - Mission Viejo

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Today, my boyfriend asked why I never let him go down on me. I told him that it doesn't do much for me, even though it really does. I didn't have the courage to tell him that it's because he acts like a rabid dog when he does. FML
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tayymeds 23

So yes, I agree that I completely deserve it because I won't be blunt with him. I just don't want him to get insecure about it, like he has with other intimate things. I drop hints by not showing response when he starts to act like I'm a chew toy, but it doesn't work. I have however, brought up the idea of watching movies with him, he's agreed to it, so maybe I'll lightly drop the bomb there.... But all in all, he's a great man and an exceptional lover--just not with that one bit of foreplay. Thanks for the laughs and opinions!

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Top comments

rosha267 21

If you're comfortable enough to have sex with him you should be comfortable enough to talk to him about it

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JMichael 25

Well maybe if you say something he could improve. Can't expect improvement without communication.

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Omniprism 14

Train him...no pun intended. Most guys appreciate direction. You have to tell them slow down, speed up, tongue, no tongue, fingers, no fingers. I think you should try again. Everyone is different that is why communication is key.

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jayray313 21

So let him go down on you, but you tell him what to do. Some men like women giving then orders in bed

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Zebediabolical 39

Rule #1: Women are responsible for their own pleasure. If you can't or won't communicate about the things you want and need in a sexual relationship, then you deserve all the shitty sex you get. Rule #2: This goes for men as well.

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barlos88 19

Throw some peanut butter down there and see if it does any good

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SgtBlacksmith 9

No offence, but that's a pretty massive blow to his manhood....

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militarybrat 21

No...not really. Not everyone likes things the same way. Example: this guy's previous gf might have liked it like that. Im married and sometimes I have to tell him (and he me) what not to do or do, simply because sometimes I want it done differently.

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infectedsense 15

Some of us are a little bit shy vocalising what we want in bed, I feel you OP. Sucks for you.

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doglover100 28

Communication is key in a relationship.

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bosox29 14

tell him to slow down and take his time. i know its fun and pleasurable for both but there is no need to deprive yourself of such an awesome experience.

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