1) Why did he need to use so much force to get her off him? How hard was she latched onto him? Why didn't she stop sucking when it started to hurt? Stubborn? Or did it happen so fast that point 2 is even more likely. 2) Accident's happen, especially when trying to stop someone from doing something they want to do 3) Maybe he wouldn't have minded the hickey somewhere else, maybe he wasn't expecting it (how else would she have been able to get so close if he has enough body-mass to dislocate her jaw), maybe they are high-schoolers, a category that is known for being hypocrites. 4) Permissions can always be retracted at any time and any place. If I intitiate sex with someone today then that doesn't mean that tomorrow he's allowed to have sex with me when I don't want to and he if he does try to force me into it, then I'm allowed to use force to get him off me. A hickey isn't rape, I get that, but a hickey is often times sexual (probably not in this case) and it's still done to another person's body. He has a right to his own body and giving a hickey doesn't obligate him to allow her to put one back. 5) Dude needs to shower her in gifts as an apology because even though the forcing off was justified, the dislocating of the jaw (wich I concider an accident, who dislocate's jaws on purpose???) went a step to far.

94 - "Who dislocate's jaws on purpose???" Abusive boyfriends, that's who. His response was way out of proportion. OP didn't say "he ACCIDENTALLY dislocated my jaw."

Words rite out of my mouth.