By Anonymous - 08/12/2011 11:55 - United States

Today, my boyfriend informed me that the mother of his children, from whom he is not divorced yet, is moving back into his house because she broke up with her boyfriend and has nowhere to go. FML
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perdix 29

I believe the technical term for that woman is, um, . . . wife.

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cradle6 13

Come on y'all. I know most of you have never been through a divorce (neither have I) but when you have kids with someone, you'll have a link to them for life. Not an emotional one necessarily, but literally you're going to have to interact with them a lot as long as your kids are minors. If you're uncomfortable with your boyfriend interacting with his soon to be ex-wife, then end it now, because it's not ever going away.

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Tymaster5 22

so let me get this straight your boy friend's wife ish is moving back in cause she broke up her boy friend so your boy friend was cheated on i think and he hasn't divorced her yet

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techgirl32 0

OMG!! Are you talking about me???

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candymaker1 0

he sounds like a real winner anyway.....

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beachya 1

I was in this situation before... It was awkward but short lived. All I can say is if you plan to be with him forever and he treats you right, suffer through it... If not... Walk away while you still can and let them enjoy their awkward times together. Yes, when children are involved there is always a bond to the person but that, in my opinion is taking it too far.

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beachya 1

I don't know your details but in my situation he had full custody and she took the kids every other weekend (at the very best) so the kids had a roof over their heads with or without that piece of crap ex around.

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Reality_bites 14

OP, sorry in my opinion their relationship is not over if your boyfriend is letting her move back in. He might say its just for the kids but in reality he told you why - she broke up with her boyfriend and has nowhere to go. Meaning that now that she s available again he wants to try again. And it sounds like to me that shes not over him either. I mean she has accepted his offer hasnt she to move in? Clearly for him to offer and her to accept they have spent quite a deal of time talking about it and have decided its something they BOTH want or could deal with and are using the kids to explain the decision while they work out the details. Where was the consultation with YOU by him or her or from both of them about this decision being made, if you were such an important part of his life, it sounds like u didnt even get a say!? It doesnt matter who left who or who cheated or not on who, this relationship is not going to work out for you. Why? Because he still has feelings for her, she still has feelings for him and living daily together under one roof is going to pretty much guarantee they are going to have regular opportunities to get back toegether. Sorry but if he was serious about you, YOU would be the one living with him. Time to cut your losses.

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Okayitwasme 0

Where is her family? Mother? Father, siblings or cousins? She could bunk elsewhere!

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keshaforever1 14

Why are you dating someone that is married??Wtf YDI bitch >:I

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desireev 17

You shouldn't have been dating a married man. You couldn't have honestly expected that to work out in your favor, did you?? I mean come on!!!

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ThatsFckdUp 0

Wat a fckn bitch!

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desireev 17

There should not be a matter of "breaking up"!!! HE IS MARRIED WITH CHILDREN!!!! SHE SHOULD HAVE WAITED FOR THE DIVORCE PAPERS TO START "DATING" HIM!!!!

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