By hannah - 14/04/2013 15:21 - United Kingdom

Today, my boyfriend of 17 months, the first guy to tell me he loves me, the guy I lost my virginity to, the only guy whose parents I've met, told me we should stop 'hooking up' because it's weird that I was telling everyone we were a couple and it was ruining his chances of finding a girlfriend. FML
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hannah321 0

hi, i'm the girl who wrote this originally (i've since got an account so changed my name- maybe some people won't believe that but whatever) and i just want to say in response to some people that it was VERY clear on both sides that we were a couple, we were not friends with privileges.. also i am not a stalker, i just wanted to specify exactly how long we'd been together because it emphasises just how shitty what he did was.. like someone else said, a year doesn't really explain that fully. maybe he was using me for sex and i was practise, but i'm not as young or naive as some people here seem to think... this isn't my first relationship, but it was my first really serious one hence meeting parents, having sex etc etc.. i thought what i felt towards him was mutual, and i think if many of you had known us as a couple you would be very surprised about what has happened, most people were always commenting on how much he seemed to adore me. right now i have no idea what his motivations were, but everytime i speak to him i want to stab him.. so im refraining from speaking to him or seeking an explanation at the minute SO thanks to everyone who's been supportive, **** knows what his problem is but im getting over it seeing as he's been such a dick to me, and i just posted him this link, so any extra abuse toward him would be welcome.. ha

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lnm701 0

What an asshole. You're better off without him. Good luck on that girlfriend search, buddy.

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musiquerobot 0

Did you guys, you know, communicate at all? You'd think that, I dunno, by the time 17 months has rolled around you'd know whether or not you were exclusive.

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strangersdk 0

That really sucks but it's definitely your fault. How could it not be extremely clear as to whether or not you were boyfriend/girlfriend? Especially after 17 months. I agree with #42 for the most part. Really should have been clear by then, and since there was any question he probably never officially asked you out to be his girlfriend, and you just assumed he was.

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MrJentipede 2

Assumptions about the status of relationships shouldn't be made. If two people have completely different conceptions about their relationship, there is obviously a lack of communication there.

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DaRkDaM3 0

Omg wow that really sucks!!! Thats terrible Im sorry :'( what a freakin loser. Hey you'll find better someone is out there just keep lookin :)

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Nandian90 0

I can undestand that, I had something similar happen to me. **** him tho, he doesn't know what he had!

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iloveericmaynor 0

I have sympathy for you and everyone wonders how this can happen.. this is how. I dated a boy for over 6 months... well i thought i did, and then he took another girl to homecoming. We said I love you (and it was serious, not just what he said to other girls), we would hook up, I drove him to school, he'd call me to come over every night even for a few minutes and we wouldnt even hook up every time. i was close to his mom, we would go out to eat... to tell you the truth i dont know how we could've been closer. and then he took this other girl to homecoming and told me, the only reason i hung out with you is because you had a car and i didn't have anything better to do since i couldnt drive. fml. girl. theres better guys out there. it may take awhile to sort through em all, but theres guys who will admit to dating you : )

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kellster 2

What a horrible person!! I was going to say something about making assumptions that he was your boyfriend, but then I re-read and saw that it had been going on for a year and a half, and also that he said he loved you. :/ That makes him an asshole for real. I'm really sorry!

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zymn 6

that's why you should be careful with who you sleep with. just because someone says they love you doesn't mean they mean it.

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