By hannah - 14/04/2013 15:21 - United Kingdom

Today, my boyfriend of 17 months, the first guy to tell me he loves me, the guy I lost my virginity to, the only guy whose parents I've met, told me we should stop 'hooking up' because it's weird that I was telling everyone we were a couple and it was ruining his chances of finding a girlfriend. FML
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hi, i'm the girl who wrote this originally (i've since got an account so changed my name- maybe some people won't believe that but whatever) and i just want to say in response to some people that it was VERY clear on both sides that we were a couple, we were not friends with privileges.. also i am not a stalker, i just wanted to specify exactly how long we'd been together because it emphasises just how shitty what he did was.. like someone else said, a year doesn't really explain that fully. maybe he was using me for sex and i was practise, but i'm not as young or naive as some people here seem to think... this isn't my first relationship, but it was my first really serious one hence meeting parents, having sex etc etc.. i thought what i felt towards him was mutual, and i think if many of you had known us as a couple you would be very surprised about what has happened, most people were always commenting on how much he seemed to adore me. right now i have no idea what his motivations were, but everytime i speak to him i want to stab him.. so im refraining from speaking to him or seeking an explanation at the minute SO thanks to everyone who's been supportive, **** knows what his problem is but im getting over it seeing as he's been such a dick to me, and i just posted him this link, so any extra abuse toward him would be welcome.. ha

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lnm701 0

What an asshole. You're better off without him. Good luck on that girlfriend search, buddy.

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Milkinade 0

I'm really sorry about that. Damn...your life is absolutely ******.

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420hiadventurer 0

It sucks that some guys are such assholes and give girls a bad opinion about guys. Sometimes, I feel like girls go for guys that are "hotties" or athletic or sweet talking or whatever. It seems like they overlook the "nice guys," and then they complain that they got used by some asshole. And sorry if I sound like I am using major stereotypes, I am just trying to point out something to think about. Girls should be careful who they go out with, but maybe try getting to know guys that are nice, smart, and "cute" but not necessarily "hotties."

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Noodletron 0

Hannah? Sweetie? This is Sonja, hon. I'm pretty sure this is you... Just so you know, you can always come talk to me. I know I'm not the best to go to if you want a raging friend -- ask Callie for that -- but sweetie, I am here for you. I know that I made some pretty big gaffs between you and...**ke... but I'm here for you always. ALWAYS. Ok? I promise I'll always be here for you. :) People screw up bad. I know I have, so has **ke, so has Callie. Unfortunately, I can't hate him for you. But what he did to you was wrong. It was very wrong. I'm so sorry baby that I can't be mad. It's just not my nature. However I am always a shoulder to cry on and someone to talk to. And I've been through more than what people think. I'm no innocent. I won't EVER judge you. I know you are a great girl. And you never deserved that. If you need anything, just ask.

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nomad3 0

wow this sux ass... this guy is a total asshole who needs to get seriously run down by a ******* bus and have his ass paralyzed. hey listen, shit happens right? we all go through it at some point. Similar things have happened to me. live your life, have fun wit your girlfriends and smile, smile brightly. Don't let him know he affected you. One day your going to look back smile and thank him for being a total dick head. keep that smile on your face, I'm sure you can be strong.

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Thisguy9576 0

Whoa seems like some ones been having some intense dreams

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audiogasmic 0

Oh sweetie i'm so sorry. What an asshole. At least you know now what kind of person he is. Apply what you learned here to your next relationship. I know it hurts because you gave him so much of yourself...but, that's life, I hope the next guy treats you better.

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the_question_mar 0

Not tryna be mean here but maybe you shouldn't have lost your virginity to a random ******** who you didn't think liked you. But dont worry about it. Just smile and move on

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starcheckered 0

ydi for not realizing after a couple weeks he wasn't your boyfriend. i usually sit with my bf and tell him he's the best boyfriend or refer to him as such. maybe from now on you should ask since you seem to be incredibly dim...

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Lifeistough 0

wow I'm a guy and that is so ****** up. I know I will never play with a girls emotions like that because I'm the type of person who doesn't want to hurt anyone. Why? Because all throughout middle school and into highschool people always made fun of me. But that has nothing to do with this, I know. But it's beginning to seem like good people are becoming hard to come by now a days. Anyway, dump that asshole cause he doesn't deserve you and took advantage of your innocence and good heart. I hope this guy gets what he deserves. Remember, karma comes quick on the other side of the gun. Oh and all those girls who used to make me feel like shit want to date me now... Funny isn't it??? If this guy ever wants you back make him beg am then kick him to the side of the curb. Hugs and kisses.

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