By ollie_ollivia - 11/07/2009 23:11 - United States

Today, my boyfriend of two years proposed to me. Less than two minutes later, he decided he wasn't ready for the commitment. After I had already said yes. FML
I agree, your life sucks 55 667
You deserved it 2 734

Same thing different taste

Comments

ashmash 0

Could this incident be a warning of what's ahead if you stay with this guy? i would evaluate the relationship...and make a decision

I agree with #13. If you've been with a guy for 2 years and he "loves" you enough to propose, then he loves you enough to mean it. You don't take something as serious as marriage/engagement back.

kmm 0

Oh man, that sucks. But at least he exposed his commitment issues now, as opposed to like a week before the wedding!

screw that guy. proposing isn't something you do spur of the moment like that, you think about it and plan it. he had no right to play with your feelings like that.

sexymessy 0

Honestly that does suck,but I think you should give him time to think about it.Marriage is a huge step,and guys(not all)have a tendency to feel trapped,like they are losing their freedom.So give him SOME time,but don't wait forever if marriage is something your into.Personally getting married doesn't matter to me!Love isn't about one day,it's all the days you make it work.

star_ver 0

It's not like *she* proposed to *him*. If he wasn't ready, he shouldn't have proposed. @OP: Your boyfriend is a loser. FYL.

chloroformxboy 0

At least he didn't use a ring pop . . .

Wow does nobody on this site realized how serious marriage is? I know I would be very hesitant about going into a legally binding commitment with a 50% failure rate. No guy wants to have to go through the circus we call divorce court.

Well maybe you should have not taken two minutes to answer him that might have made him think you weren't ready yet either.

lyndis_fml 0

That ... didn't... happen. Read the FML. Read it thoroughly and make half an effort to actually figure out what it says.

what a dick.. kick him in the balls and make he wake up, aint rdy.. what a jerk..

He obviously wants to marry you. He obviously understands it's a serious comitment. I'm sure he will be ready soon. Could be much worse.

move on. he's probably got a boyfriend on the side anyway.