hahahahaha sorry :D

This sounds so much like my ex, I wanna scream! You know what he is? He's a coward. If he doesn't want to put forth the effort to see you but doesn't have the guts to tell you he doesn't want to be with you anymore, so much to a point where he's making up excuses, just end it. You will be better off. Save your money on for things that aren't going to let you down. He's a lowlife who can't own up to his emotions, and is making you figure it out for yourself.

Get rid of him. Maybe he feels bad though. I had a boyfriend that I financially supported for years. We didn't even live together. I only saw him a few times a week yet I paid for everything he did. :-/ You sound like a moron like I was.

you should break up with him immediately, before he sucks you dry

Ok theres a couple of things here. The economy sucks right now and I've been a victim as well. I was bartending for a while, friends wanted me to visit and I could stay for free and they would help with gas. However if I took a weekend off work it would set me back a couple hundred bucks, therefore I would worry about being short on rent, car payment etc. So its not always about him being lazy or a loser. Why don't you try visiting him?

Well dang, if he don't want to see you I'll come visit! I need a vacation!

Maybe he wants to pay for himself, ever think about that?

Aww that sucks. I dated a guy just like that once, but he never complained about me paying for EVERYTHING. I laugh now because he's 27 and lives at home with his mother, and I'm 23, engaged to a wonderful man, and almost a doctor. Your b/f sucks like my ex. Maybe THOSE two can hook up??

Maybe it could be the fact that he actually CARES for you, and doesn't want you to spend money like that on him.

Maybe he feels bad about making you pay for everything?