By what did I do? - 25/10/2013 11:54 - Australia - Sydney

Today, my ex boyfriend got into a physical fight with the guy I've been casually seeing for 9 months. Afterwards, they had a beer, a long chat, and decided this was my fault and I wasn't worth the drama. FML
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Same thing different taste

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A fight and a beer... that's some great male bonding right there.

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That's quite unfortunate. Friendship tends to last much longer then relationships, especially between guys so it wasn't necessarily all negative.

That's the way real men solve their issues

ccubsfan94 1

this is what women need to realize. when guys fight afterwords its over. you couldve broken the others nose and youd be best buds. but women. you even breathe in the wrong direction you are sworn enemies for life.

Ahahahhahahahhahahhahhahahahhahahahhahahjahahaha. **** a fake friend where your real friends at.

It's a conclusion your ex should have reached before starting the drama. I am not saying you did anything wrong op, it's just people need to learn how to let go and move on when a relationship is clearly over. And that conclusion is one you should now reach with the person you were seeing. He too, is not worth the drama. If people take forever to get over the person who they aren't compatible with, they will take longer finding the right one.

Lolwut? I don't understand this "casually seeing" terminology. Like seeing someone would be cheating and not seeing someone else isn't cheating. Is "casually seeing" someone else half cheating? I didn't know that had different levels, seems pretty denied to me. The point of this is that YDI, unless saying "casually seeing" isn't just a way to make yourself feel better about cheating.

To the OP, i'm just more curious if its a FML situation because they stopped fighting over you? Did they say you werent worth the drama? Or was it like 'Shes not worth the drama' cos if thats how its worded, gotta look at how we term things, like: she'll be right, it refers to a situation, not a specific person

That's a guy thing...always friends in the oddest way...