When someone feels threatened by something they will put their investigation skills onto hyper mode - you might want to invest in some new passwords tbh if she's finding out everything.

OMG, dad? This just happened to my dad.

Even if I did suspect something I'd never dream of going into my partner's personal emails (unless I thought he was doing something illegal). Marriages have lines you don't step over and not all of them are to do with who you're sleeping with.

I'm kinda surprised everyone's so positive and understanding about the fiancée's behaviour- she's had a bad dream, something every rational person should KNOW has no basis in reality. Because of that she's breached his work email (which could get him in serious trouble if it contained confidential information) and looked through his personal conversations with his friends (which might contain serious personal stuff those friends told him in secret, and which they might not feel comfortable with her knowing). That's a serious issue, and should not be excused with her feeling insecure. You don't have the right to go through ANYONE's personal stuff, no matter what your relationship status is.

Seems to me that all the people commenting that she'll get over it are missing the point. That is a total violation of your privacy, not to mention a ridiculous overreaction to a dream. You need to have a serious talk with her about boundaries and communication. It's not okay that she did this and it isn't standard female behaviour, it's a warning sign. I hope you figure things out.

You must suck at making passwords if she could easily get into all of your accounts so quickly. Make them harder to crack by using symbols, numbers, and upper and lower case letters. Also don't use the same password for all of your accounts. You could also try pass phrases and 2 step authentication.

To everyone defending the fiancé's actions: last night I had a bad dream where Biff from Back To The Future seriously screwed me over and I wanted revenge, so am I justified in tracking down Thomas F. Wilson and teaching him a lesson? No? Then she isn't justified to do that either; *especially* when it involves work emails because who knows what kind of sensitive corporate information they could contain? I think OP needs to confront his fiancé about this; reassure her that it was just a bad dream, that he always has been and always will be loyal to her, but they also need to maintain a mutual level of trust; which going through private messages can jeopardise.

She definitely needs to calm down. You should talk to her and reassure her that she has reasons to trust you. If she's that easily swayed by a simple dream, she must be really nervous about losing you. Just sit her down and remind her of what matters. It should be fine as long as you guys work together and communicate.

I think maybe you should talk to her and help reassure her that, that is not the case. If you don't like her going through your personal stuff, change your password and let her know. If she's feeling that way it's probably for a reason, but that doesn't make it okay to violate your privacy.

sometimes when something feels so real you need to find out yourself. how would you feel if the situation was switched and it happened to you? you could ask her but she could just brush it off and lie to you. would you want to go into a marriage knowing you could be marrying someone for the rest of your life and living a lie? people have fears and the only way to stop it is to face it or prove it wrong. And it's most likely once she finds out and reassures herself, she won't do again