So you are fat for no reason? yeah that tends to happen. Husband is right and its the OP s fault because when you marry someone who invests in themselves a lot like fitness trainers how do you expect them to love you for your personality and not say anything when you get fat? Their life is all about shape and looks bla bla,anyone who doesnt fit in that picture is unwanted or bad for image or whaterver. Its same with girls who invest too much in their looks,i dont expect if i am in a relationship with someone like that that she ll love me for my personality,but for my looks because thats how that kind of people look at the world and the people around them. And #50 people dont get fat for No reason,either you are lazy or eat a lot,that fat gota come from somewhere,if your metabolism is slow then work out more.

again - i eat little. and my bmi is still in the healthy catagory. some people are just fat. im not morbidly obese and im only sixteen but im pudgy. not full blown twenty stone thunderthighs. again; some people are just born fat. i normally have juice or a smoothie and fruit for breakfast, soup for lunch and then a low calorie low fat and completely non arteficial dinner. i only eat dairy if i have cheese with a baked potato, i cant stand milk or butter. and i dont like cheese much anyway. so yaaaaaaaaaa. people can just get fat for no reason. i go to the gym about four times a week and do a mixture of cardio, swimming and yoga.

- my bmi is 21.3. my weight is healthy, i just look and am chubby. and girls arent shallow - they care more about personality, being looked after and cared for as opposed to a "tight ass" and huge boobs.

Again- fat has to come from somewhere,cute chubby excuses,lots of numbers and shit. Here is how it goes: FAT=all the crap you eat that you don't use during the day. Energy gets stored in fat cells=chubby If you do half the things you say you'd be ripped. And you are not. So you don't. And girls tend to be very superficial,it is not only reserved for men.

Its been proven - when men look for a 'mate', they focus far more on the physicals. and again, im not hugely fat. my bmi is 21.3. im sixteen. i dont have a huge deal of muscle but the healthy range is 19 - 25. and im female and - shock horror horror - still going through puberty. i dont eat any crap. i limit my calorific intake to under the daily allowance EVERY day and i exercise a lot. so again - suck dick.

Again (this is so annoying )- Cambridge research fact-...when women seek partner they focus on genetic signs of healthy offspring,reverse triangle in figure,good hunter=provider etc... Men function the same way (offspring bla bla),we are just more straight forward about it. Some men express this instinct a bit more and they are known as the chubby chasers (somebody you know?) because for some,body reacts more extensively to visual stimulants in a form of female curves bla bla...(fact confirmed numerously in social articles and real life)... AgAiN - food comes in+no activity=get fat. There is no other way. Depending on metabolism and genetic predispositions,you can get fat faster or slower but you cant get fat for no reason,puberty or no puberty. So quit imagining that you work out and that someone can love you only for your personality,quit bitching and if you were not a minor i d tell you what to suck. no more time for rplys,us grownups have to work. (this was low,i know)