Take the money and divorce the dumbass :) he's not worth the trouble

Please, please go straight to chumplady.com. Fantastic advice for betrayed spouses. You will find everything you need to sort this out from that site, keeping your dignity and sanity intact. Best of luck.

Don't let your emotions get the best of you. Stay very calm and tell him you need time and distance but don't leave, leaving actually takes away a lot of the benefits you'd get in the eventual divorce. Organize your affairs, separate out your assets, save your money. If he's bribing you take the money, gifts you can pawn, vacation whatever you feel comfortable with and then when you're ready to get out of the relationship - ditch his ass like a bad habit. I usually don't advocate for being passive aggressive but he ended the marriage when he couldn't keep it in his pants. best of luck OP.

Ever heard of dogging or seen it in action?

take the money and go pick up male strippers

What an asshole. Hope you are leaving that Dick wad.

Take it then dump him.

It's not as bad as buying a guilty driven diamond ring like some celebrities do...

Take money then divorce him and get more money

take that money to pay for the divorse