By anonymous - 24/04/2012 18:18 - United States

Today, my husband announced that he wants to separate emotionally. Meanwhile, he still wants me to cook and clean for him while he dates his new girlfriend. FML
I agree, your life sucks 44 209
You deserved it 3 325

Same thing different taste

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Thats when you slap him and take all his money.

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Wood2007 0

Honestly your husband is a douchebag and you deserve better. I wouldn't do a damn thing for him. Get his new girlfriend to do it

theonlysweetpea 10

Logically: I'd say go to conselling (I spelled that ALL wrong!)

There should be a follow up FML from the ex-hubby soon... Something reading along the lines of: "Today, I told my wife I still wanted her to cook and clean for me while I dated somebody else. The doctors at the ER just laughed when I said that was why I needed my balls re-attached. FML"

graphicstyle7 17

Leave. Leave. Leave if you can. This is not a good thing. Forget counseling, leave.

skyeyez9 24

This happened to my friend, her ex arrogantly went about and cheated on her with multiple women, yet still wanted to stay married so He didn't have to "leave his beautiful family." She divorced him and is now getting $6,000 a month in child support and alimony.

You're telling me this guy has to cough up 72k a year? surely that's too much.

skyeyez9 24

No it isn't. He makes about 500K a year selling medical equipment to hospitals. Or something like that (mainly cardiac stuff).

Alimony should cease to exist, yeah sure he should pay child support but thats for the child so don't act as if it's a win for the woman, back on my main point alimony should cease to exist because it's just a reason to divorce someone. That is, you can go **** who ever you want and still get the same support financially, it just shows that the person receiving it is a leech. Look at Vanessa bryant, her and Kobe broke up but she didn't sign divorce papers so they could technically be married for 10 years so that he would have to pay her outrageous alimony for the rest of her life, and for what? Having sex with him?

skyeyez9 24

I am so sorry to hear that OP. I can not fathom how completely heartless and selfish your (hopefully soon to be ex) husband treated you. It is better to divorce and be single vs sitting in your home wondering where your husband is and why he chooses to run to another woman's arms. You deserve better.

What the fudgestickles how does that even work?? Dump him and destroy his and the new gf relationship.

megansays 2

Sounds kinda high school to me.

He basically wants to be able to call you Mommy.

Why is everyone trying to get her put in jail? Drugging someone...even with ex lax is a crime. Kick him to the curb, change the locks and get on with life. If he refuses to leave, YOU leave and take any kids with you. No money to leave on? Leave the kids with him, go stay with a friend or family member till you get on your feet. He might discover being a daddy isn't as much fun when his GF doesn't like or want to be around his kids. Point being, move on, he doesn't love you!

vongrim 2

is it his house? if yes, does he ask you for rent? does he still feed you and pay your bills?

That's what I feel everyone is forgetting, she said 'still' in the post as if she used to do it before which means he paid the bills, so he offered her a home if she cleaned and cooked but he still paid I assume, I don't agree with it but he's not really degrading her now Is he? Most of the people here would not have thought of that.

275, you seem to be confusing "wife" with "maid."