35, I don't understand why most women say such idiotic things like that.....where do they get off assuming that the house always belongs to them. It's BS is what it is! My wife would never tell me to get out of HER house, (if I'm paying the bills & the mortgage....it's MY house....if WE are paying together, it's OUR house) Clearly OP NEEDS to divorce her jerk of a husband & move away from him, but your comment makes you sound as if you're a (man hating) feminist & sexist pig ( like my ex (who not only cheated on me, but sold MY house (& used the $ to pay off the student loans she had before we were together), car, computer, & rare collectors items to pay for her habits/shopping sprees) I thank God every day that she died from an aneurism 3 years after I left her....(B.I.H. A.P.!)

Do I even have to say why you should divorce him?

What the hell is wrong with your soon-to-be-ex husband???

If he really wants you to cook for him... add something into his food...that he would be sick forever!!! :x

I'm pretty sure there's no such thing as "emotional separation". Either you're separated or you aren't. I think he just needed some BS excuse to "justify" his cheating and, at the moment, that saw fit. Seeing as you're "emotionally separated" now, he wouldn't mind if you physically separated from him. Don't do anything vindictive like laxatives, arsenic or anything like that. Just divorce him. QUICKLY.

I think you should say you want to seperate physically and that means not seeing his face and new girl meaning you won't be cooking or doing anything for him

Tiiiiime to take a dump in their bed.

Sounds like you need to invest in a backbone and find a real man. You'll only be treated the way you let people treat you.

Wait till he leaves for work, then move the money, pack his stuff, change the locks and tell him you think he should go **** himself

I'd rip his dick off