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Maybe he wants to make sure that he's not the only one paying anything?
As someone who got a joint bank account at my wife's urging soon after we were married, I understand his concern. That was the second dumbest thing I've ever done. However, saying he doesn't want to be married anymore is excessive; he should have just said "no". Then again, if you continued to pressure him *after* he said no, then YDI.
What was the first? Getting married?
I really can't understand why people want a joint bank account!!!!
I have a joint account with my fiancé where all of our bills and our mortgage come out of. We have our own money and a joint account. Makes sense to me
did you argue for it.
If he's going to threaten to divorce you every time you suggest something he doesn't like I would just go ahead and dump him. Sounds like he's a childish manipulator.
Should have found that out or realized he was that way before you got married. Sorry but YDI
my fiancee and I have our seperate accounts and a joint account together we use to pay all our bills and save up for a house. I don't think its a bad idea to have one you can both put money in when you want and to save up for things for.
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I bet you didn't 'bank' on that when you said "I Do"...
It might be time to talk to him if it's a trust issue . . . Sorry OP