By kayt240 - 04/05/2011 05:41 - Canada

Today, my husband told me that he's letting his mother move in with us. He told her it was alright without even consulting me first. I hate my mother-in-law so much that I'm contemplating divorce rather than living with her. FML
I agree, your life sucks 47 388
You deserved it 8 085

Same thing different taste

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Her husband is the one making important decisions without even discussing them with her, which shows just how committed he is.

I hope you hate her for a good reason, otherwise you're just being irrational. FYL anyway mothers-in-law are such a pain most of the times. :(

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reddwarf_fml 0

I think what he's trying to say is that u need to leave. I would rather put up with my mom than u

WOW, some of the comments here... just WOW. "if you truly loved your husband you would put up with his mother and the rest of his family just to make him happy", WHAT THE HELL? And that's just the top of the iceberg. What is she, her husbands POSSESSION who's just supposed to be content with whatever shit he pops out with? If he wanted to have sex and she didn't, should he just let him RAPE her so that he'd be happy? ******* hell, are you guys seriously the same people sending soldiers to the middle east "For womens rights"? **** you. A lot. You should be disowned from humanity. Just letting his mother move in with them without even consulting his wife clearly shows he doesn't see her as an equal but as his slave or some shit. Slaves shouldn't "let" anyone do shit to them. OP, if you still want to be with him you should tell him how this is disrespectful to you and to your marriage. And if he doesn't respect that you should get the hell out and file for divorce so that he won't be able to live in the house either. Personally I'd just kick my wife out if she started bossing me around, but I'm not a married man and honestly don't know enough about your relationship to know if it's worth knocking off.:)

Are you ******* stupid? How do you equate RAPE to a wife acquiescing to her husbands wish of allowing the woman who gave birth to him, and raised and nurtured him for his entire life, to move in. You, are an ignorant piece of shit if you think that this signifies the wife's status as a possession to the husband. You are way too jaded to even rationally or fairly comment on an FML like this so why bother. Why don't you go somewhere and bother somebody else with your parroted preachings from a misinformed source you god damn idiot. Our soldiers are not at war for the rights of women in the middle east, our soldiers are at war to protect our country from terrorism. Spread your shitty double standard, liberal ramblings elsewhere, fool.

GreenBud_fml 0

quit bein a bitch.. u knew what u were marrying and his mom is part of the package due to family... Ur a **** for even thinking that.

jordynot4you 0

shyt i say you divorce him..once you marry a man you marry his mother

divorce him?!?!! you must just have written that right? cuz if that srsly is the way you think then you are srsly retarded, and all of you who are on this psychos side probably have the same syndrome. but hey! i shouldent blame you, you cant help that you got born that way.

On one hand, have you actually tried consulting him first? If he knows how you feel about your mother in law, this is rather inconsiderate of him. If, on the other hand, you have failed to express your discontentment with the situation, you have only yourself to blame. If he has done this against your wishes, and especially if this kind of situation has happened before, you might have other reasons for a divorce.