how about this for an anniversary gift....serve him divorce papers

Kick the ingrate in the balls and give the SOB a real reason to be a bitch.

I had a horrible marriage to a guy who was always telling me how stupid, etc. I was and what a horrible time he was having with me. I tried to leave, he begged me to stay. Time after time. 14 years later (so many years wasted!) he finally left. What do I have now? Well, a new husband who spends lots of time telling me how great I am, not to mention a beautiful house and sweet step-children. RUN! NOW! Before you waste a second more of your time. Don't think you need to put up with it. If he hates it so much, end it. There are many, many fish in the sea. P.S. I'm not a beauty queen, I just learned to respect myself.

Maybe it really had been a bad two years but that doesn't meant it had to do with op.

Listen to #95

It depends. If taken out of context, yes, it can be a bad thing. But...In the first two years of my marriage, my father died of cancer, my aunt had a stroke and I had a miscarriage. So yeah, those first two years of my marriage have been the worst of my life so far.

I kinda know the feeling.. my boyfriend left my for a 16 year old two weeks before our two year. he turns 20 next month... it's the worst feeling in the world

Op here. This was a couple yeas ago now. We are getting along a lot better now. There were some outside forces that were causing stress and also we as people needed to learn how to get along and have respect for each other

If he's told you numerous times I'm wondering why you don't do something. Counseling? He's obviously not happy. If it were me I'd be delving into that.