She doesn't understand what it is, and as far as what's been said, there is no Spanish term for "Graphic Designer", nor a way to explain it to her. It's a mix of language barriers, her just becoming old, as well as believing she has the right to do as she pleases, being the Mother and all.

not sure if you meant a translation or not, but graphic designer is dise~nador grafico (don't know how to put the ~ over the n). Since i don't know much about it, i read that: they find the most effective way to get messages across in print and electronic media . That i think, is basically making drawings or designs to advertise. Maybe you can just tell her that. I really doubt it ,but hope this helps.

I don't think there are gay jobs for straight folk. Or if there are, it may be a fairly awkward environment.