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Socially awkward penguin!
I have autism, I know how you feel. Sometimes, you have to push yourself to put yourself out there. It's great that you feel proud bro, keep it up. I've manage to do it, but I still struggle with new people. Try to ignore the possible trolls/assholes who might comment...
*Dumbass What a dumbass...
Do you have social anxiety? It sounds like you might. For someone with social anxiety, that actually is an accomplishment. Mine used to be so bad that looking someone in the eye was a real challenge; I would start shaking uncontrollably. I know how tough it is. The only way to improve is to keep putting yourself out there. It's only little things at first, such as what you just did-- asking someone a question. When you accomplish something like that successfully, it'll give you the confidence to do more and more bold social actions.
I'm the same way, so don't feel alone. *brofist*
you're not alone! I was like that for a few years until I got my first job and had to talk to customers. After you get that experience with people, it's much easier after that
I've been there. At one point, it used to take me 10 minutes to work up the courage to ask a clerk a question (like "do you have this in size 2?"). But you can work on it. By doing seemingly easy things, like asking for an item's price, or anything like that. I have no problem talking to people now. Actually, people have trouble imagining me shy. So, don't give up. It just takes a lot of efforts, and courage.
Good job
open up.. they are just human.. you are not inferior to anybody.
If your social anxiety is that so bad that you can't even ask a question, you should seriously consider seeing a psychologist. You have the initiative to improve yourself but the psychologist will help you get over the anxiety faster. I had to see a psychotherapist for over a year after dropping out of college a few years ago, and I still suffer some social anxiety today.
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I'm just like that. But be proud! It's baby steps, and before you know it you'll be able to do anything :) I, unfortunately, am not able to ask a stranger a question yet. But once again, baby steps! Good luck :)
This makes me feel less awkward.