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If you can't believe you married her to begin with why do you care what she thinks? Just leave.
Don't stop working out, bring her along if need be. Once she gets past the insecure part she'll love the remodeled version of you. Not just physically but mentally too. Keep on it man
And if you sat around and got fat she'd give you shit for that. Can't win...
I was sympathetic until that last sentence
If I could thumbs this up 100 times I would. OP Sounds like an asshole.
I'd be a bit concerned too if my husband made a sudden change without at least bringing it up in conversation first, not because of cheating but because our communication with each other had got so bad. Your wife needs reassurance, not you running off to strangers online to whine about it.
Well OBVIOUSLY OP deserves the abusive accusations, because he's not ...reassuring enough! Or...something. Whatever, the bottom line is he's a guy so he deserves it. She's a girl so she needs more pampering when she spouts abusive, controlling accusations. -sarcasm
I said a bit concerned, not a blubbering wreck. Maybe we're odd, but if I'm thinking of trying something different it comes up in conversation with my partner before he notices my toned abs. So for me, I'd find it weird, just not 'omg he cheated!' weird.
Working out is good... Ask her to join you...
Concerned with the amount of comments supporting OP's wife. If OP wants t better himself, his wife shouldn't leap to such conclusions. Chances are OP that guilty people make the first move and often accuse their partners, so OP's wife may eb the one playing away. Check it out OP, and I hope I'm wrong.
My ex wife flipped out when I bought new underwear. Obviously cheating. The old ones were getting holes in the bands.
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So stop for a little while and tell her she can't complain when you get fat.
Marriage logic.