Intimacy: Today, my wife of 12 years informed me that the only sexual activity...

By tigger2013 - 03/08/2013 04:01 - Australia - Cheltenham

Today, my wife of 12 years informed me that the only sexual activity she is interested in is foreplay, and she absolutely doesn't want to go any further than that anymore. FML

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Same thing different taste

By beaverless - 02/05/2011 20:26 - United States

Today, my girlfriend kindly broke the news to me that she doesn't want to take part in any sexual activity anymore because it's getting too boring. FML

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Permission granted and rejected

By Anonymous - 28/09/2023 04:00

Today, my wife lost interest in sex a long time ago. I’ve tried to reignite her interest lately, which culminated in an argument where she gave me permission to go out and shag other women. We might as well divorce at this point if she’s going to say things like that. FML

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Stuck in a rut

By Anonymous - 16/04/2020 20:00

Today, I realised my wife has been slowly phasing out most elements of our previously active and inventive sex life. These days, it's missionary once a month or she tells me to whack one off by myself in the bathroom. When did we get so boring? FML

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Hang ups

By at least put on sexy underwear - 01/09/2023 20:00

Today, my girlfriend complained that we never have sex anymore. The only way she ever wants sex is missionary, with barely any foreplay. When I asked if we could spice things up and mentioned a few simple ideas, she said the conversation was making her uncomfortable and changed the subject. FML

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Stuck on amber

By Anonymous - 01/10/2020 07:58 - United States - Greensburg

Today, my wife and mother of my kids said she doesn't want sex. Or a divorce. FML

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Alexa, play "Boredom" by Buzzcocks

By Anonymous - 24/12/2021 05:01

Today, I had to have the awkward conversation with my wife of 20-plus years that the reason I’ve lost interest in sex is because our sex life has been mind numbingly boring for at least 15 of those years, always the same positions, never wanting to try anything new, just so boring. FML

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By Uhg - 10/03/2019 02:00

Today, my spouse made it clear that they would rather play video games than be intimate with me. I've tried everything, but get nothing. FML

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Take care

By Anonymous - 16/12/2020 08:02

Today, after close to 10 years of marriage, my wife’s health has improved enough she is craving sex again. Just not with me. FML

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Ace of Spades

By Simon Edhouse - 13/09/2021 09:00 - New Zealand - Auckland

Today, my wife has initiated sex less than five times in the 18 years we've been married. If I don't mention it, then she doesn't have to bother. FML

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Creepy thing to do, for sure

By Anonymous - 11/12/2023 16:00 - Canada - Toronto

Today, my wife told me she wanted to try something that would turn me on immediately. While I was in our bed, she came in, wearing only the underwear she took from our 13 year-old daughter's closet. Now she doesn't understand why I'm genuinely disgusted and don't want to have sex with her. FML

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pdp_fml 21

Saturday 3 August 2013 12:31

Doesn't foreplay lead to sex? Please try to warm her up for about 30 minutes and see what happens after that. I think that you will score.

logankyng 15

Saturday 3 August 2013 12:27

Stuff like that is the reason I'm unmarried and content

Comments

miss_sqwert 19

Saturday 3 August 2013 14:07

shes obviously cheating

iAlissa 34

Saturday 3 August 2013 15:24

Yes, 32, let's just assume that from the get-go.

ViviMage 38

Saturday 3 August 2013 14:12

She may be too dry to find pleasure in sex. I'd ask her WHY. Scared of pregnancy? Pain? She isn't connected to you anymore? She has another man? There may be a fixable reason behind this. You might need couples counseling, if you need more than cuddling and foreplay.

ScottyFoxx 10

Saturday 3 August 2013 14:20

Take her out for a round of golf then

rec_chem 22

Saturday 3 August 2013 14:34

I suggest a new wife.

bobak_can_ani 7

Saturday 3 August 2013 16:10

They are married for 12 years. They probably have children. Is that the best idea you can come up with?

imtooshy 18

Saturday 3 August 2013 14:35

This fml is missing a few details. Did she only tell you this and not provide a reason? I think after being married for so long that you would definitely at least ask why after the wtf factor wore off. Sorry OP, your situation does suck.

perdix 29

Saturday 3 August 2013 14:47

Too bad you live in Australia where baseball is not popular. Otherwise you can explain that she needs to bring in a closer, or if she goes to the showers earlier, you'll need a long reliever.