it was just an exaggeration.

rooskerelo, it's called a hyperbolé. did you like fail english or something?

you're innocent until proven guilty. i'm not one to jump to conclusions and accuse my boyfriend of cheating with no evidence. yes, i would have approached him about it, but i would let him explain the situation before i decide to dump him.

@ #27...So glad there is at least 1 logical female left in this world...have as many daughters as possible because apfluxx, and women like her, are everywhere oh and might I add OP, I'm assuming you're an adult. We see how your girlfriend reacted over a note...you're a grown man you shouldn't have to beg your girlfriend to take you back every time she wants to be a bitch... What if you have a business partner and you and her didn't start off on the right foot and to celebrate you guys' recent success she sends you a gift basket that says "here's to a new start"? She gonna leave you another note and leave you again? **** her

First of all, I'm pretty sure seeing a boyfriend who's caught kissing a woman who's clearly not his mother or sister counts as evidence... Also, where is this coming from? You're projecting onto people you don't know who you've only read four sentences about. What Carissa wrote makes perfect sense in the context of a step-mother/step-son relationship. If the girlfriend knew that Carissa was the name of his step-mom and still assumed the OP was cheating then she is absolutely jumping to conclusions and being rather crazy.

I can understand that you've been cheated on, and I am very sorry about that. I'm sure you don't deserve anything remotely close to that. I just don't understand why you are so adamant about making this into something else. You're reading so much into a four sentence anecdote. Based on the four sentences I read, the girlfriend is overreacting. That's all the information we have. You've gone out of your way to make assumptions about their past when there is nothing to suggest that. Maybe they had infidelity issues in the past, maybe they didn't; it really doesn't matter because it's just a post on FML.

How do I know what you're like? Well since we're quoting one another... "Any woman who sees a note like that for their boyfriend would have thought the same thing."-you. via comment "I've been cheated on several times by the same guy..."-you. via comment "Not saying that the OP really is cheating but who wouldn't come to a conclusion like that?"-you. via comment "I'm a very jealous person"-you. via profile These quotes, from you, are how I know what you're like. Granted I don't know everything about you but, its pretty obvious where you stand as far as trust and relationships go. I dont know you at all and dont care to...i'll even give you the BOD and say you're a good person. When I said women like you I meant women that: jump to conclusions, automatically assume the worst, and make a decision based on partial information. There wasnt anything personal about my comment and i'm sorry you took it that way... but the fact that you took it personally proves that: I did get my point across, you have issues, and that i was right. So right in fact, that you felt the need to defend yourself. I pretty sure there are plenty of girls on FML alone that would at least question their boyfriend before leaving him...thats just childish. Its not every guys fault that you've been cheated on. It sucks I know, but if you're going to treat every other guy you get invloved with based off of past ****-ups then you're either going to end up old and alone or with somebody and unhappy...let it go. moving on to your 3rd quote...how can you come to any CONCLUSION when he isnt even there to defend himself? You being jealous is self-explanatory. p.s dont take this one personally either :-)

Also in post 38 she said she had a mental breakdown after being cheated on. It seems ironic that she would claim that you know nothing about her after sharing so much personal information in her comments.

umm...apfluxx was your #76 post meant for me? it couldnt have been because none of what you said pertains to me at all. I never even included the word "psyco" of any of my post so that pretty much excludes me from your second paragraph. As far as your third goes...If you read MY post then you know i never said I "know every girl" nor did I say I "know you". and I never said "every girl automatically has mental issues". You know that so that post, as far as it pertains to me is irrelevant. Look I'm sorry you got cheated on. You obviously didnt deserve it and i'm very sorry you had a mental break down. I have no idea what thats like so i'm not going to judge or comment on that. None of my post were meant to offend you...when I said women like you I simply meant your jealous tendencies and suspicious manner not you as a person. I actually think you're quit beautiful and, judging by looks alone, I would probably date you. I was just trying to get a point across which is: jealousy is unattractive. That's all. That being said, I apologize if I offended you and hopefully you can find some one that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated :-)

i didn't say it was everything about you, i said it was personal information. You are just jumping to conclusions again. THAT GUYS NAME IS iSwag? What a retarded name, I am not taking his side anymore.

apfluxx is the perfect example of a phsyco obsessive bitch. take notes, everyone

Who says she didn't just forget the stepmom's name?