Tell her he's gay. If he thinks it funny when you get laughed at then turn the tables, yes it's mean but when even gay men are being assholes they need a taste of their own medicine.

YDI for not telling your mom that he's gay and ending the issues.

she's going to find out anyway so why not tell her??

just tell her that it's hard to find girls with dicks.

**** it, out 'em out.

tell her dummy

Haha, that sucks OP. But at the same time it'd be wrong to snitch on ur bro, so make an excuse like he's old enough to do it by himself?

I would love to be in your position and just tell her the truth

"Tell her he is gay." and "Blackmail him." I know this all seem like a bad situation for OP but it's a bad situation for his bother too. Coming out of the Closet is a very difficult thing to do. I'm bisexual and it took me years to tell anyone. I was afraid of what would happen when I did. His brother has plenty of reason to be afraid to tell. It might not be that he really just wants to hear their mother yell at the OP. There are some countries that give the police the right to shoot gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and etc on the spot without reason. Not to mention, the suicide rates for people who got rejected after coming out. My best friend tried to kill himself after people started being hateful towards him. Try to see it from his brother's point of view: If you had one thing in your life, the very essence of your soul, and it was a big secret. You think people might hate you for it... Maybe even disown you. Some might try to "cure" you of a disease that "made" you that way. Would you want to stand up and shout it out for everyone to know?

91 First off this is America hon. second off his brother is being an asshole. Third, I'm sorry to hear about your friends death but he should have known better he mustn't been really dumb. My Best friend almost killed himself because he's bisexual. My best friend Jen started taunting him and telling him he's going against nature. I told her to shut up. Later that night he was about to hang himself. I made him stop. I went right to his house and spent the night there making sure he didnt do anything dumb. The kids that killed themselves thought that was the only way out. they didn't have the support at all. they were constantly taunted. Constantly. Your best friend sounds like an acquaintance to me. if he really was your best friend and you were his and you knew what he wad gonna do then well that's pretty sad. Seriously. I doubt if his brother kills himself but if he does, it's the brother's choice just like your friend. He drove himself to die. He shouldn't of cared of what people thought. The reason for blackmail and revenge is because you are looking at the 'poor' gay brother instead of the person who's actually suffering. This person should not be putting up with this verbal abuse from the mother. They can choose to get even or continue on with this. Ehh the people in those country's are old fashion. Not all gay people are nice. For one thing there's this bisexual girl in my choir who drove me almost to Sucide. On purpose. each person is different. Not all straighten are full time assholes. not all lesbians look like the typical lesbian nor do they all act the 'same'. Not all straight women are ******. Not all Gay men are nice nor pleasant to be around. And not all bisexual are nice either. why you ask? because no one is the same thing. So know what you're talking about. SRSLY